Should I go back to him/her?

Here is how you can tell someone is good for you: - You feel safe with them - They make you happy - They encourage you to live your life independently from them - They do not make you feel guilty or pressure you into anything - They make you feel good about yourself - You feel important to them, even when things are rough - You want to take care of them, but do not feel responsible for their well being - You feel you could trust them in a moment of crisis - You both feel these things mutually

No you should not. Once they left you there are chances they will leave you again.. you should go back to him only if that feeling is true and they love you the same way

I think the first thing to consider when wondering is the following: why did you break up? It is essential to pinpoint exactly what led to the relationship failing. Afterwards, the question to ask is: is the reason [that you broke up] still there? Whether it was someone, communication, values... there is a reason why you broke up. If that reason is still there, what makes you think it will be different this time? And finally: why do you want to get back with them? This one is a tricky one. The first answer that comes to mind is "I love him/her" and that is indeed a very easy answer. Dig deeper. Is it because you are simply used to that person? Is it because you feel lonely? Is it because you don't know who you are without them? Good luck! Stay strong x

You are the expert on you. Only you can decide ultimately if you should go back to him or her. But I would suggest reaching out to friends and family and a counsellor who can help you find clarity on what makes the most sense for you.

If they are worth giving for and if they are worth thinking for so yes definitely you should! Just ask yourself only one question that what you are expecting would they be able to give you that .

It depends really. Some questions that may help if he or she is abusive either physically or emotionally? If you spend more time hurt than laughing and good time.... Or maybe just this question: What is better for both?

The question is : Why did you break up? Think about it! Is everything that drove you to the break up solved? Do you want him or you are just used to his/her company that you don't know if you want to know how it is to be alone again? Think about every question you had before your breakup and then see if you have all the asnwers. If you do, you should have and answer

Do not go back to the past. Whether it is someone you once loved, something that someone said about you, or if it's just a mistake you made. It does no good to visit a world that you can never change; become the person you needed back then so that your future will be thankful.

This is a decision only yourself can make. I would advise to write down pros and cons of the relationship. Also Think about the reasons why you broke up to begin with, to find whether it can truly be fixed. Taking time to really weigh up this decision can avoid a prolonged heartbreak and a further inevitable break up.

Weigh up the pros and cons of the cons outweigh the pros then don’t go back to him or her otherwise rethink of how that person makes you feel if this is balanced and decide whether you see a future with that person