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My partner and I keep breaking up and getting back together again. I don't know what to do any more.

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Anonymous on Dec 12, 2015
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If you keep breaking up over and over agin then don't go back to them. If they just keep breaking your heart why would you want that pain over and over and over again.
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Anonymous on Dec 13, 2015
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You shouldn't give him any chances anymore, your partner usually deserves only 2 or 3 chances, but if he/she is being dishonest or aggressive with you constantly then you should dump them and seek for a better person that will love you truly
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Anonymous on Apr 24, 2016
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I've been in this situation before. In my opinion, if you broke up once, it was for a reason and staying apart is likely to be a good decision. What I'd do is cut all contact with them for half a year. If you meet after those 6 months and decide that you're in a better place now and really want to get back together, you can do that. It's not like they'll be Gone Forever or something. But you'd give yourself some time to figure out how to be okay, alone, before getting back with them. Or maybe after the 6 months you decide that you don't want to get back with them, and that's also okay! Having some space to figure out what YOU want and need can make it easier to make that sort of decision.
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Aflower on Oct 23, 2014
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If you keep on doing this "game", it will always end in tears. You should tell your partner that you have to have a serious conversatioun, where you try to figure out what's going wrong. And if you realize that actually the main causes of breaking up a bigger than the causes why you should be together, then you'll have to end the "game", and just separate and go your own way. Kt is hard in the beginning, I know, but you can do it
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newbeginnings3 on Mar 13, 2015
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One of the most challenging things about relationships, any kind, is communication. Think about what may be causing you both to keep fighting, and address the problem(s). Don't get frustrated and always think positively! If you both really love each other and are there for one another, you'll get through this. Also think about if this relationship is for you or not. If it is, then do your best to work out the problem(s). If it isn't, maybe you should consider learning from this experience, moving on, and finding someone you are more compatible with. Good luck!
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spiritualsoldier on Sep 14, 2015
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Ups and down are a basic part of relationship but it does not nessessarily mean we have to break. Coming to a common consensus is a better option to do
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My1es on Apr 22, 2015
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In my experience, it is important to look at the "why" of breaking up, and the "why" of getting back together again. Relationships can take a lot of work, and they absolutely need open communication in order to be successful. It might be a good idea to sit down with your partner and discuss the relationship and both of your expectations of it. These kinds of conversations can be very revealing and can provide direction as to where to go from here. I hope that helps. :)
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Hadir on Oct 16, 2014
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you should both sit together and have a talk about it maybe you'll come to a decision that will be great for both sides
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Anonymous on Apr 23, 2015
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If things can't be resolved maybe it's time for some couples therapy. The roller coaster of emotions can't be good for either of your well being. A couples therapist can work with the two of you on communicating with each other and help the two of you work through your issues. You both should be willing and open to the experience for it to be effective.
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krxo2 on Oct 25, 2014
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Determine why you keep breaking up. Decide whether or not the relationship is worth the constant make up break up.
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