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My boyfriend or girlfriend wants to break up with me, how can I change their mind?

Profile: heatherishere64
heatherishere64 on Jan 1, 2016
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It should be their choice whether or not if they want to break up with you because sometimes you can't just change your mind that if you love someone or not, right? If you are really wanting to, show them all the cons to the breaking up that they are wanting to do. Be as loving and supportive as you can.
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Profile: Lalaxoxo
Lalaxoxo on Jan 1, 2016
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Unfortunately, if they feel like it isn't going well and they don't want to continue further, you need to let go. You need to respect their decision. You can't change them, and you can't change their mind. If they want to leave, they will. The more you try to convince them to stay or change their mind, it will push them away even more which may create an unhealthy breakup which will not be good on both ends.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 2, 2016
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Communication is key. Ask your romantic partner what it is about you or the relationship that bothers them. If there is something concrete that you can fix, do your best to fix it to preserve the relationship, if it won't harm you in any way. If there isn't, you will have to accept that some things are out of your control, and you will have to let your partner go. (But remember there may be someone just as good for you who wants to preserve the relationship!) Good luck.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 2, 2016
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First know Its gonna be a bit challenging to change someones mind once they settled on the ideal. If he or she is thinking about breaking up with you, they are obvious not happy in the relationship they are in. And the fact that they want to end the relationship instead of fixing it shows they want to move on. Its pretty obvious you want him/her back soo the best thing you should do is to meet up with this person and just have a honest 1-on-1 talk about how your feeling and how there feeling. Who knows you might find something interesting you didn't know before!
Profile: Hotspring26
Hotspring26 on Jan 3, 2016
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prove them they are wrong with their decision. just prove that whatever is the reason for the breakup is not there. and remember, youre awesome!
Profile: divinewillpower86
divinewillpower86 on Jan 4, 2016
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If someone asks you, Can you pls tell me the direction to ---- then you can only tell direction. However you still can give some suggestion.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 4, 2016
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Unfortunately, you can't force someone to love you. It hurts and it sucks, but in the end, it is better than being in a relationship with someone who doesn't care about you. If it was meant to be, they might realize that they made a mistake, but remember to put yourself first and don't spend your days hoping for that. And remember for every door closed, another one opens.
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This is circumstantial, but in most cases: don't try to change their minds. This is happening for a reason, and it's awful but you'll be okay.
Profile: Lifeislearning
Lifeislearning on Jan 6, 2016
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Well, if you think you can reverse the situations.. Then you must apologise them first and ask them why he/she is wanting breakup.. If their is problem about understanding, compatibility or habits.. Then you can apologise for a new fresh start to change and improve the things... You can make changes and develop better understanding with time to overcome problems which are the reason for breakup.. And if their is some other issue.. You can talk to them without leading any fight.. And try to solve the matter
Profile: simran14
simran14 on Jan 6, 2016
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you cant force them.....and if its your fault only then u can mend it but maybe if they just dont want to stay then they arent worth working on
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