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My boyfriend or girlfriend wants to break up with me, how can I change their mind?

Profile: superman02
superman02 on Dec 19, 2015
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Sometimes it isn't the best option to change there mind, as hard as that is to believe we must remember that all people are entitled to their own opinions of what should happen. As people we must be able to accept and live with change it may not be the most popular answer but, you should really ask yourself before attempting to change their mind am I doing this for me or them.
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Profile: charmingBeauty83
charmingBeauty83 on Dec 19, 2015
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Make them feel like your there to support any decision they make as long as there happy. They will see how much you care about how they feel .
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 19, 2015
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you can't. it's like no turning back if they made up their minds on breaking up with you, they could only pretend that they changed their mind but really,, would you want to be with the shell? if you guys are really meant for each other, you will be together again. if not, you are not.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 20, 2015
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If my boyfriend or girlfriend wants to break with me, I should find out the reason behind this. If it is a minor problem, we can talk about it and try to settle things down. However if the reason behind the break up is cheating or he/she has fallen in love with someone else, the situation is more complicated. Changing his/her mind will be useless. So in this case, I should let it go. But in all situations a dialogue is a must because whatever the outcome, we would have heard each others point of view.
Profile: sweetDew64
sweetDew64 on Dec 20, 2015
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You can remind them why they are with you. Do things they love or try new things to spice up your relationship
Profile: daisdais
daisdais on Dec 23, 2015
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What is the reason they want to break up with you? In some cases it can be better to break of a relationship. However if you sit down and talk with them you may be able to work something out. Relationships are ALL about communication! Talk to your boyfriend/girlfriend!!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 23, 2015
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You cannot change their minds. What you can change is your reaction to the situation. If you need an explanation as to why they wish to end the relationship, ask them kindly. It could be any reason, just make sure there is communication going on :) wish you the best.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 23, 2015
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Figure out what you've done wrong, maybe there is a way to patch up your relationship. Under some circumstances the relationship can be fixed. Always remember not to waste your energy on meaningless/toxic relationships.
Profile: siribear20
siribear20 on Dec 24, 2015
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talk to them why they want to break up with you. if its because of something you think you can change, then maybe you can give it another try.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 25, 2015
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If your boyfriend and girlfriend is willing to break up with you, they are obviously not the right one because you wouldn't need to change their mind.
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