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My boyfriend or girlfriend wants to break up with me, how can I change their mind?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 25, 2015
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You cant make someone love you, dont pressure them into dating you, if they love you, then you'll get over this bump in the road and make your relationship even better
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Profile: OverPouringCup
OverPouringCup on Jul 26, 2015
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Try to empathise with their state of mind and give them some positive reason for still being in the relationship;but if they still feel the need to breakup. The best thing for both is to let them go.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 26, 2015
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Evaluate first if this may be the right thing to do. Explain your thoughts if ever it does seem like it isn't. Respect his/her thoughts on this. if ever, don't make promises you can't keep if you're changing a few things.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 29, 2015
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You don't want to force them into something if they have their mind set on to one thing. Communication is key. First, try to figure out why they are having the thoughts/ideas of breaking up. Second, try to understand and communicate about the problems that have risen. If the other partner just knows it won't work out, let it go. Let destiny do its magic.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 31, 2015
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Sometimes you can persuade people to change they're thoughts and sometimes you can't. When dating if one person doesn't feel right and wants to end it then you can't really change it. It's just how they feel . Stay Strong 💕
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 1, 2015
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To change their mind about breaking up with you, you could, ask them why "why are you breaking up with me" and try to make it whatever is wrong better
Profile: caringdrop00
caringdrop00 on Aug 1, 2015
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Ask them why they want to split up, ask them what made them make that decision, if it was your behavior or the lack of attention that you didn't make to them.. only when you know your mistakes will you know how to improve them.
Profile: peachmilk
peachmilk on Aug 1, 2015
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Try to ask them why, sometimes, you can't change their mind, and maybe breaking up is the best way to go, but it is always good to ask and see whats wrong.
Profile: classicangel
classicangel on Aug 2, 2015
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You can't change a persons mind on a break up. If your partner thinks it's best to part ways then it means they're no longer interested or there's not enough effort put in. It depends on the reason why he/she want's to break up. Try putting in more effort and start fighting for your partner back!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 2, 2015
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you cant really change their mind you can try sort things out together by sitting down and talking about what you bothwant from that relationship
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