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My boyfriend or girlfriend wants to break up with me, how can I change their mind?

Profile: badartist
badartist on Jul 22, 2015
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Do not change their mind. It's not worth it. If they do not appreciate your company, trying to convince them is a waste of your time that can be better spent with better people.
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 22, 2015
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Hanging somebodies mind is dificult. If they have made a decision then it is best that you show them that you respect their decision. However, you can always talk to them for the final time to see their view
Profile: pjukuleleboy
pjukuleleboy on Jul 22, 2015
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you should not try to changer their mind, this person dose not feel strongly for you most likely for a reason and trying to change their mind can latter case an abusive relationship.
Profile: RIPGwenStacy11
RIPGwenStacy11 on Jul 23, 2015
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It all depends on the reasoning behind them wanting to break up. If its simply that they dont have those romantic feelings anymore or if they have fallen for another you might not be able to do anything. But if its about maybe financial struggles or something of that sort you can always try working on it.
Profile: robleslouie
robleslouie on Jul 23, 2015
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 24, 2015
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show them that you really care for then and maybe do something really kind or buy them something it might work
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Anonymous on Jul 24, 2015
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Face and asked them what exactly happen. Give them time and never push them for answer. Try to control text them too much.
Profile: TrueWanderer
TrueWanderer on Jul 24, 2015
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Compare yourself now to how you were when you two fell for each other. Find out what changed in you, and in them. And work on fixing that. If your boyfriend or girlfriend isn't having something bad in their mind like cheating, then things should go well.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 25, 2015
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It depends on why they want to. The best thing for you is to let them go forcing them into a relationship wont help at all it will just cause more problems for the future.
Profile: clariageorge
clariageorge on Jul 25, 2015
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Forcing another person into a relationship is never the way to act, try asking them how they feel and why they feel this way first.
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