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My boyfriend or girlfriend wants to break up with me, how can I change their mind?

Profile: heavenKoala44
heavenKoala44 on Jul 10, 2015
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i don't think you can't change your mind, you can't force someone to stay. but you can do your best to demostrate her/him how much you care and love him/her.
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Profile: DarkestBeforeDawn
DarkestBeforeDawn on Jul 11, 2015
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The unfortunate truth about this one is that you can't. They aren't happy and, chances are, there is little you can do to change their mind. It is already made up. It hurts, but this is the truth more often than not.
Profile: butterflykisses27
butterflykisses27 on Jul 11, 2015
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You can ask your partner why they wish to break up with you. They must have their reasons. Its best to talk through things in a calm and rational way. No finger pointing or getting heated. This never helps when trying to sort through things.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 11, 2015
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if they want to break up with you let them, there obviously not worth your time because there not the one clearly, just keep looking for the right person, you cant change someones mind
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 11, 2015
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yes that depends on them you can't never change their mind …but you can always tell them how much you love them and how you feel ..and always be responsible of your own actions and what you have control of. you can't be responsible of their actions and mind. only they themselves can if they want to give you another chance maybe cuz they still love you or cuz they still care for you.
Profile: lyricalRecipe90
lyricalRecipe90 on Jul 11, 2015
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By making hum/her realize that you truly love him/hee and you need him/her as he/she is an integral part of your life
Profile: Avery27
Avery27 on Jul 12, 2015
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If your boyfriend/girlfriend would like to break up, there is nothing you can or should do. A relationship is between two people, and if you're the only one putting effort into making it work it simply will not be enough. You are strong, and it is by far the persons loss.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 12, 2015
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Sure, you can get creative and romantic and try and make things work, you can beg and you can plead and hope that they change their mind, but what you have to realise is that sometimes it's for the best. Sometimes it's best for both of you to just let go.
Profile: Stormearth
Stormearth on Jul 12, 2015
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A break up should be a persons own opinion and decision. You can try to talk with the person and try to figure out what's the reason.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 12, 2015
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Honestly that is one of the tough things about relationships. You can't control them. They are based on the feelings of two different people and when one person doesn't feel then anymore then it tends to cause some tension. The best thing is to give them their space and see if they come back to you. If not, it wasn't meant to be and you'll find some one better.
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