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My boyfriend or girlfriend wants to break up with me, how can I change their mind?

Profile: Gilbertron
Gilbertron on Jul 8, 2015
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Tell them how much you love them. Tell them you never want to leave them, that they're your world and you can't live without them.
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Profile: intellectualvoice29
intellectualvoice29 on Jul 9, 2015
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You honestly can't, if they aren't happy you can't keep them in a relationship, and if they realize oh man i really miss you then you guys could work something out im sure.
Profile: NDS369
NDS369 on Jul 9, 2015
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It's time to give each other space, for the more you try to hold on tight the more they drift apart
Profile: warmPumpkin67
warmPumpkin67 on Jul 9, 2015
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If someone wants to break up with you it means that he is not happy or that he doesn not love you like he used to. Sometomes it is better to let people we love go and if they are happy than we are happy, too.
Profile: boo
boo on Jul 9, 2015
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You can't. People end relationships for various reasons. In my case, I broke up with my boyfriend because he was too possessive and controlling. He tried to stop it by saying that he is like that, but he will try to control it. I kind of knew you can't because he seriously can't. he is like that, I don't want him to change for me, if he wants to, he will
Profile: Personalitikhum
Personalitikhum on Jul 9, 2015
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It is such a sad situation but there is nobody in the world that could change someone else's mind. If you did, it is manipulation rather than changing their mind. The best possible way, although hard and painful, is to change oneself.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 10, 2015
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It's always good to talk to each other and to work on your common problems, but in my opinion there is a point where you have to let somebody go. Even if it hurts really bad in that moment, it's still the better thing to do in the long-run. Trying to convince somebody who's already done with your relationship in his mind, is not only nearly impossible, but it's also very hurtful and it will just postpone the breakup.
Profile: Imhereforyou88
Imhereforyou88 on Jul 10, 2015
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Show them the best im you let them know that you care and you don't want to end your relationship.!!
Profile: MathewTheBull
MathewTheBull on Jul 10, 2015
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If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, its yours forever. If it doesn’t, then it was never meant to be.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 10, 2015
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Changing another person's mind is not an easy thing to do and often times, its not the right thing to do. You wouldn't want to be with someone that truly doesn't want to be with you and has to be convinced otherwise, so would changing their mind really benefit you? Think big picture and focus on what's really best for you at this time.
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