My boyfriend or girlfriend wants to break up with me, how can I change their mind?

you can't control their feelings, but you can try and confront them about that and try to change it.

make them want to stay with you, make you impossible to live without. make them the centre of your world as if all your life revolves around

At first, you need sit and talk to to he or her, ask why they want break up, what's going and what can be solved and improved to going back normally their relationship

Sometimes it's not possible to change their mind, people can be very set in their ways especially once they've made their mind up. Maybe just remind them of all the good times you've shared together and explain that their happiness is what matters to you more than the relationship?

You can come to an understanding with them before you decide to break-up with them, there's always a chance that things will revive. Remember, better late than never. Be absolutely honest to yourself and your mate and set a dialogue with your mate so that you can talk about all of those arbitrary or the-usual-matters-that-you-come-across when you are in a relationship. You can always work it out, if you truly love your mate. However, at one point, you also need to prepare for the worst-case scenario too if things go nuclear and you have gone to every extent to fix them, but you just could not. Choose what's best for you, and what's best for your mate.

You really can't. It's their decision to make, and honestly if you're planning on keeping them with you, act more considerate towards them; shower them with love.

Talk to them about all the funny, sweet, cute, and romantic memories you've made with them. They might think about what they'll be missing in the future, someone who was memorable enough to spend time with :)

The best you can do is ask them to hear you out, express your emotions and feelings in hope that they will understand if you want the best out of your relationship. Ultimately it is important that you mutually respect and understand each other in making decisions and not all choices can be changed by you. Good luck!

It might be useful to sit down with them and talk about whats on their mind and if there are any issues in the relationship that could be resolved. Its really really tough to come to terms with, but ultimately it is their decision if they want to end the relationship.

In life you can not control another person. As much as we would love to, because we just want to protect ourselves from pain. You can not tell someone to change their mind that is their decision as painful as that is to accept. Listen to their reasons as to why they want to end your relationship. Try and work out if you can fix those issues together. But in the end not all relationships work out, but it doesn't mean you will not find another.