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My boyfriend or girlfriend wants to break up with me, how can I change their mind?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 2, 2015
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You can't. You can only choose your actions and reactions, respect them enough to let go, respect yourself enough to not settle for someone with who decide not to want you in their life
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Anonymous on Jul 2, 2015
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Ask them why they want to break up, make them express their feelings. Talk to them and see how they feel.
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Anonymous on Jul 2, 2015
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You don't. If they have made their decision, and you change their mind they are either going to be unhappy in the relationship, things will be completely different or both. Maybe in the future you'll be able to try again because people grow and change, but if they aren't feeling it anymore, you can't change it.
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Anonymous on Jul 3, 2015
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In my experience, once someone has made a decision like that it's very hard to change their mind. I think the best advice here is to focus on you. Do you want to be with someone who isn't so sure that they want to be with you? You deserve the best, and to be loved fully for who you are.
Profile: neverendingMelon46
neverendingMelon46 on Jul 3, 2015
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Listening, talking, discussing the issues between you. Make all your feeling clear and tell them what you want. Figure it out between you so that you know what the problem is and how to fix it.
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LoveYourself21 on Jul 3, 2015
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The mind is a creative thing and is really smart but sometimes, it can be wrong. Try to treat them the way you would treat you. Don't act fake,but act you. Flood then with memories, and If it doesn't work out, there out if there mind. ;)
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Anonymous on Jul 3, 2015
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You should ask them how can y'all relationship be better for each other so it can be healthy for one another.
Profile: Stainedglass
Stainedglass on Jul 4, 2015
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You can't, unfortunately. You just need to become accepting. If they're not willing to be in a relationship with you, it's not worth trying to force them to stay in one, you'll just both be unhappy.
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Anonymous on Jul 4, 2015
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you can't change their mind and you shouldnt try. what you can do is understand why they want to break up with you and then according to their answer you can try to help them or make it easier
Profile: Mimii1
Mimii1 on Jul 4, 2015
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No matter how much you want to change someones feelings, it is not healthy. Love comes naturally and placing restrictions on it or trying to make someone stay when they do not want too is not liberating. Rather, take time to heal and do things you love.
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