My boyfriend or girlfriend wants to break up with me, how can I change their mind?

It's never a good idea to try to change someone's mind - the power dynamic will always be slightly skewed from then on if this happens. It is better to be loved by someone who actively wants to be with you, than to try to make someone stay when they might not be able to give you what you need. It is better for both of you, and the relationship, to allow people to stay and go as they want to. :)

Talk to him about what went wrong in the relationship. How you two can improve it. Just try communicating with him. with an open mind. I would be more than happy to be a mediator if you two need one

If its a true love for you, you shouldn't have to do anything other than be yourself and love sincerely

You can talk to them to understand why they are making the decision and ask if there is anything you could do differently. Other than that, there is not much you can do. It's painful - but clinging to someone who doesn't want to be in a relationship feels even worse.

To be honest, in my opinion their mind cannot be changed if they have reason for break up. Unfortunately if partner wants break up, it means he/she doesn't see future for that relationship. I think you should get to know real motive for their thoughts about ending relationship. Sometimes your partner might feel overwhelmed with problems and wish to sort out them by their own. In that case he/she maybe needs only more space and time. Just make sure what your partner wants and make sure you know why.

We cannot force people to love us, no matter how much we want them to, or how much we love them. Trying to change their mind sounds like effort you should not have to force into the relationship. If a person wants to break up with you, no matter how much you have done for them, you have to ask yourself: is it really worth staying with them anyway if they're going to treat me like this? It is important to remember, however, it isn't your fault. People change, as will you. It will get easier.

You shouldn't try to change their mind. If they wanted to break up with you and then stay they won't exact have the same spark they had in the beginning

If someone wanted to break up with me then I would let them because why would I date someone who didn't want to date me. But, if you really love this person then you need to have a serious conversation with them about how you can make the relationship work.

You shouldn't have to change their mind. If they really care about you they wouldn't want to leave you.

firstly you are showing the strength by not letting the other one go. and if you are that adamant, then you should make them sit down and have a conversation. Jot down the points you would like to talk about, so that you dont get any last minute jitters and screw the situation. Call them back with all your love. If he/she really loves you then the love and honesty your soul carries towards them , will be reflected in your eyes, and wont remain unseen from them.