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My boyfriend or girlfriend cheated on me, should we break up?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 20, 2014
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Yes. Once a cheater always a cheater..If you think it's unhealthy break up with that person, know your worth
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Profile: Andy31
Andy31 on Apr 2, 2015
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Try to talk with your partner about it. If the fight keeps going, then you need to change something about it.
Profile: Lennya
Lennya on Apr 9, 2015
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That is a call only you can make for your relationship. It will depend on if you feel like it was a one time thing and if you think you two can get past it and rebuild the broken trust.
Profile: Gummysnacksandgatorade
Gummysnacksandgatorade on Apr 30, 2015
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Here's what I've noticed: people pretty much always know what they want to do. They're just waiting for someone to give them permission to do it. Give yourself permission to act in the way you think is best.
Profile: GermanZebraCupcake
GermanZebraCupcake on May 7, 2015
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This is purely up to you. However, I would not stand for it and I would choose to depart from the relationship. You deserve better! :D
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 22, 2015
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If your partner is truly sorry for what they did and you're willing to forgive them, try working on the problem first. Everyone makes mistakes. Yes, cheating is definitely one that is extremely horrible. But there is always hope for a relationship if both parties are willing to work on it.
Profile: Peacefulmeditation
Peacefulmeditation on Aug 21, 2015
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That is up to you. If you can forgive and move on then it's possible to stay together. Determine the feelings of your partner and find out if they would like to stay together as well.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 25, 2015
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It really depends on whether or not you believe this relationship is worth keeping. Do you think they're likely to cheat again? Honestly, it will be tough because trust has been broken and it's a slow process to build it back up. If you are willing to forgive, and he/she is not going to cheat again.. then you may not have to break up.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 26, 2015
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well first you all have to talk about it and if the decision is to not be together then so let it be and sometimes it is a good thing to forgive and forget
Profile: PoliteOcean
PoliteOcean on Aug 31, 2015
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Nobody but the two of you can decide if you should break up. The best thing to do is to talk with your partner and for the two of you to talk over your feelings about what happened and why to see if you are both willing to move forward together or move on without each other. If you feel you need additional assistance, you could also look into seeking "couples therapy" for further help.
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