Me and this guy had been dating for a year when I broke up with him we both loved each other and he thought we were doing well but I suddenly broke up with to what should I tell him?

You both need to find closure and resolve how you both still feel. Be honest with yourself and take his feelings into consideration

You need to answer that question to yourself first. Why did you want to break up and could it be an underlying reason as to why you strayed away when things felt "too safe."

Its always good if you could start with the truth..This is so that he has closure and so will you.. It will definitely be difficult of cause it will hurt..But its for the best..

Tell him why you broke up with him. It's only fair he knows why you did what you did. A lot of times when something comes to you suddenly, you get confused and want answers because you thought things were going right and so he needs to know why you did it. Truthfully and kindly. Had the roles been reversed, you would have wanted the same thing from him so it's only fair you do the same for him. It will be hard but take it as a form of closure for both of you all and he'll understand if really loves you.

Sorry things are hard for you. You should stick to your guns. You broke up with the guy for a reason. If you were happy with him, you would not have broken up with him. You will have more respect for yourself if you stand with your decision. You may have been in love with him but your heart was not satisfied with the relationship. You will be more respected when you say what you mean and mean what you say. Tell him what's in your heart. Be open and honest so he will continue to respect you and your decisions. God Bless!