Is it still worth trying if he/she broke up with me several times?

No, its not helping anymore, just sit back and relax, if you two are the soulmate then it takes time

No it's not, if they really loved they would not broke up with ever. You should just find someone that can appreciate you the way you are.

Maybe not. Breaking up often is a sign that he/she is experiencing problems with you that won't allow them to stay with you

Depends entirely on why you broke up. If you've been at the mercy of this person's whims in the past then think about what there is to gain by getting back with them. It's really as simple as that. If you can see yourself getting ditched again in the future or they haven't changed their behaviour during your relationships then maybe you deserve a bit better. Also consider how much time you've spent being upset by this person and whether or not anymore is likely to be a waste. Set rules and boundaries, if they can't adapt and make serious attempts at amends, ask yourself why you're willing to submit to all the pain again.

You seem to be confident about how you feel so you keep trying for that person. But isn't it weird that you don't see the same from him/her? Think of that for a moment. You deserve someone who is willing to give you and show you affection and love.

I think this is a question that really only you can answer, and maybe it’d be more effective to ask yourself why you keep allowing somebody to leave you so many times, when you’ve managed to stick by yourself your whole life, and your pretty great! Ask yourself what you’re trying for, whether your confusing how she / he makes you feel, with how you WANT to feel. It’s okay to be in love with the idea of being in love, even when the reality isn’t so sweet. But sometimes, reality is what we need, and when you’ve been confronted with that reality several times, it might be worth taking some time to fall in love with yourself instead.

No, if he/she has broken up with you several times, it indicates that you are only a second option. That person is more likely to come back to you because he/she knows that you will be always be an option if the other relationships fail.

If you are the only one trying, then maybe you should let him try for once. If he does not try to connect with you, then you know it is not worth the effort. Look at it this way, if he thinks you are worth the effort, he will not go looking for someone else while you are there and if he does, then he did not think of you as someone worth having. If he really did love you, he would try to work things out with you instead of trying to break up with you at the slightest inconvenience to him.

I have been through a similar situation a coupe of times. I had to make the decision that was ultimately best for my self-preservation. Each time he broke up with me it made me feel lonelier, less trustful, made me think that I was not really important in his life. I would go through a self-analysis of wondering what I did wrong again, would anyone ever love me, a sense of decreased self-worth. Finally, I had to become strong and end the relationship. It hurt really bad at first, but over time the pain decreased to the point that now I am happier, less stressed, and I learned to set boundaries that are healthy for me. I continue to struggle with anxiety and the feeling of loneliness but I am learning ways to build up my self-esteem, confidence, and doing activities I enjoy. I have joined online and local support groups as well.

Yes and No, Well, here are few tips. And it is upon you to if you choose to use this or not. 1. Take suggestion from people who surround you.( well you are doing it right now). 2. Find a way out, you know what is best for you. 3. Try to control AT( called Automatic Thought). Google and see what is it. ( If you have already tried it then, make an appointment with a therapist. ) and if you have a therapist and it is not working for you then find another one. I think i cover all of the stuff.