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Is it still worth trying if he/she broke up with me several times?

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Anonymous on Jan 3, 2019
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Honestly no, i don’t think so because once is worth another go because people can change, thrive in a relationship again but if they break up again with you multiple times you deserve better and it’s clearly not working to the best of what you both deserve. Due to the fact if they do break up with you multiple times there’s something missing in both of your parts of the relationship. But it doesn’t necessarily mean that you will always be broken up with because that’s not true, you just need to find the one person who will not break up with you
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slytherinstarling123 on May 1, 2019
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If they keep stringing you along and breaking up over and getting back together, there's clearly something that isn't working and it may be time to reconsider your relationship. You should be that persons priority and if they keep breaking up it shows that the relationship isn't healthy at this point in time. It's hard when you love someone, but it's about what is going to be better for the both of you in the long run, breakups hurt but being in an unhealthy relationship can be a lot more damaging mentally over a long period of time
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Anonymous on Jul 11, 2019
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It’s definitely worth trying if he or she puts the same effort into the relationship. But if there is not communication or effort into making it work you come to realization that there are plenty on people out there with very good intentions and kind hearts. Relationships aren’t meant to be on and off. When you truly love or want to be with someone you take the time to understand the problem or situation you’re currently facing. We have plenty of time in the world to continue meeting people. Mean while enjoy the beautiful world you’re living in soon you’ll see how valuable you are. Stay happy and enjoy your wonderful life!
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SadCupoTea on Jul 27, 2019
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In the end, that is solely your decision. However, based on my experience, on and off relationships are often toxic and don't have happy endings for both partners. I was in a couple unhealthy relationships where it was on and off. In the end, it drained me of my energy and took away my sense of self. The more I stayed attached to my ex-partner, the more sense of self and independence I lost. While my experience isn't the same as yours, I highly recommend moving on. It may hurt for a while, but in the long-term you will be happier.
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Anonymous on Dec 13, 2019
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I do not think it would be worth it if they broke up with you more than once. They clearly are not worth staying with if they keep hurting you. If they really want you, then they wouldn't put themselves in a position to lose you. I had a girl that I was in love with, once, and she broke up with me twice. I still waited for her, and she ended up putting me on the shelf and telling me to wait for her, while she went off with someone else and left me to watch. I have gotten over her, and if your situation is anything like mine, then the person isn't worth it. There's plenty of people who will be able to give you what you need and deserve.
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Anonymous on Feb 16, 2020
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If a partner broke-up with me several times, I would surely question myself if it’s worth trying. I can only speak from experience, on my case it turns out to be toxic for both of us in the end and love shouldn’t be toxic so I had to give up. Love brings out the best in a person but when it turns toxic it can also bring out the bad and the ugly. Choosing to try is choosing hope but one needs to know when to call it quits, and you’ll know. You’ll know when it’s time. If it brings out the worst in you, if you feel it’s taking a toll on your everyday life, if everyone else sees is the same and you don’t, if saying “I love you” becomes daunting and becomes a duct tape to end an argument, if you start to doubt yourself, if you start feeling you’re not good enough... it’s time to rethink and maybe time to set both of you free.
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Anonymous on Mar 18, 2020
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I personally feel like it is a bit risky to try again after so many break ups. If you do decide to rejoin in a relationship with someone who you have been on and off with, you both need to know what exactly you want out of the relationship, and have that clear communication so that your hearts don't get hurt again. Do you both want a long lasting relationship? Those are the sorts of questions to ask. Depending on their answer, that will help guide you to knowing whether this is the right relationship to be in for you.
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Lovegiver102 on May 13, 2020
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No it's not worth fighting for. If he truly and really care about you he would have stayed with you. I understand it may be hard to leave but it may be for the best if it's hurting you. Explain to him that your relationship means more then he's giving you and end things. You may find you feel a lot better after leaving like a weight has been lifted off your shoulders. It may be hard and your heart may hurt but I promise it will get better I promise things will get better for you. Because there are people that care about you
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AFellowPilgrim on May 31, 2020
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If the other person broke it off several times I would think that would be the answer to your question itself. Don't pine away for someone who doesn't really want to be with you. Get out and get interested in life. Find some things that interest you where other people are also there. Take a class, volunteer, go to various types of meetings that interest you. Take an interest in other people. Ask them questions about themselves. Show yourself to be friendly. And take time to breathe and relax. Be good to yourself. Along the way you mind you may find someone special.
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Anonymous on Aug 5, 2020
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No dude, several times, I'm assuming 3-4 times. He might be playing with your emotions. Please stay away from such people, and try to work more on yourself. Instead of wasting time on him, try to focus on your ownself. It won't be easy, but will work eventually. If you think that he's the only one, then please realise that this world have about 7 billion population, you would get some or the other person. And that person would treat you right. Stay happy, don't give anyone power to mess with your mental peace. You are special and you deserve someone special.
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