I'm dating someone who has cheated in the past. What should I do?
uniqueTruth17
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Aug 11, 2016
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This is a difficult situation for anybody to find themselves in . The phrase "once a cheater always a cheater" is thrown about very often. However, it is in fact, subjective to the circumstance and the type of person they are. If you feel and truly believe in your heart that this person made a genuine mistake and that they love you, then you may want to keep on with them. However, from personal experience, if you are dwelling on the occurance and its having a negative effect on your relationship and how you look at your partner in all respects, it is wise to at least take some time apart, and then do what feels right to you after some time to reflect has passed.
Anonymous
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Aug 12, 2016
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If they have cheated in the past then they will probably do it again. However, people can change...keep a good eye on them
MrBoo
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Aug 13, 2016
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cheating doesn't make em evils , but they still might do it again , so of course you can give em a chance , but keep aware !!! good luck.
scotty4947
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Aug 17, 2016
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I'm sorry that has happened before. If you still want to be with this person and forgive them, you will need to forget this ever happened. Based on experiences with friends, they had kept that hurt/betrayed emotion in the back of their minds. That ultimately made the relationship unbearable. So, if you are able to forgive and forget, then you should try and continue. If not, you may want to reconsider going through with them. Do you think you can do that?
TheHoneyDoll
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Aug 18, 2016
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It depends on the scenario. I have cheated once before due to an abusive relationship but I am very loyal to my current partner and would never cheat on them. It really depends!
Anonymous
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Aug 18, 2016
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I myself dated someone who had cheated previously, and they ended up cheating on me. But I didn't trust this person, and they flirted with others in front of me. Try to understand why the person cheated previously. It may not have just been to cheat. I'm not saying there are good reasons to, but if you understand why they did, it
could help you know whether to trust them or not. Not everyone who cheats once will continue to do so, so try not to assume that they will. Talk to your significant other about it,
MissMonMon
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Aug 20, 2016
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Keep communication open and honest. People do have the ability to change so don't get paranoid. If you are worried it may be helpful to just talk to your partner calmly and without accusing them. Let them know that they can talk about anything they feel is missing from the relationship and that you are in it together.
lovingLynx89
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Aug 24, 2016
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You are the expert on your life and desires. Your intuition should be a great guide to make important decisions.
Lorlah30
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Aug 25, 2016
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Some people are not what they used to be in the past,sometimes we should take a leap of faith and give them a benefit of doubt they won't repeat the same thing. So you can trust and not hold them on to their past.
Helping2findaway
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Sep 1, 2016
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Do you trust him enough to be with him and maybe you should talk to him about how you feel about his past
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