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I want to break up, but I'm scared that no one will ever love me again. What should I do?

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I understand that breaking up can be hard. But you need to look after yourself. Is it in your best interests to break up? You need to do whats best for you. You will find someone to love you.
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Anonymous on Apr 22, 2017
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The most important person in the world is you. If you are in a relationship but are not happy anymore, you will have to seriously think about it. You goal is always to seek happiness and, to be true, you always deserve to be happy. So if you are not happy anymore, you will need to take action in order to be happy again. Unfortunately, going through a break-up is like a grief. Mostly, you will feel sad and lonely for a while. You will have to take care of yourself, you will have to learn again how to love yourself by yourself, without the help of someone else loving you. Get with your friends more often, share your feelings with them will help you get better. Doing activities and hobbies more often will help you too. Soon you will feel whole again, you will love yourself enough to realize that being single is more than okay, it is as good as being in a relarionship. And only then, will you be ready to welcome someone in your heart. Never forget that you always deserve to be happy, and it never depends on anyone else but yourself.
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AuntCaitlin on May 11, 2017
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If you are unhappy, it is okay to leave someone. It is also normal to feel as though you will never be loved again, but there is always others out there with a lot of love to give and you will find the one that is right for you.
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HeyoSarah on May 12, 2017
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If you feel as though a break up is needed, don't stop yourself from it. Do whatever you can to shoot for the starts, aim for happiness. Staying in an unhealthy relationship in fear of never having love again, will only make you feel more miserable over time. It's best for everyone in those situations to break things off and start again, love will find it's way to you when you're ready.
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Arthur22 on May 12, 2017
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FIrst you need to think again why you want to breakup, if you really sure you want to breakup then do it. It's just 1 person hate you, your ex, but you have lot of people out there loves you. You don't need to be afraid, you are worth to get loved by better person than your ex.
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Butterfly2Sun on May 20, 2017
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Fear of being unloved is something that dwells deep in everyone's soul. If your current partner doesn't treat you right or you're genuinely not satisfied with your current relationship that shouldn't prevent you to seek other options. This poses an interesting question; would you rather continue your life and love out of habit than break free and take a chance to experience something you really want.
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Anonymous on May 24, 2017
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You are thinking too low of yourself. Please don't do that. If you are unhappy in the relationship then you have every right to break up. Everyone deserves love. Everyone deserves happiness. Your fear of no one ever loving you is due to I am guessing low self esteem. Don't think like that. You will find someone who will love you the way deserve to be loved. Break up if that's right for you. Work on your confidence. And don't let this fear hold you back.
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LetsTacoBoutIt44 on May 25, 2017
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I don't think you should worry about no one ever loving you again. I think that there is an abundance of things to love about everyone, and lots of people will find things to love about you. I think that you should ultimately do the thing that makes you feel the most happy and the most respected.
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damselinthisdress on May 25, 2017
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It's okay to be afraid before taking such a huge step. Breaking up with someone means having to let go of a huge part of your life. It is normal to have a certain degree of fear and anxiety associated with it. But the fact that you want to break up means that you have realised your self-worth. You have successfully set boundaries for yourself and you know what works and what doesn't work for you. And trust me, people will see that in you. The key is to forgive yourself and love yourself for who you are. As long as you love yourself, people will automatically be drawn towards you eventually to love you. :)
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Anonymous on Jun 30, 2017
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Break up. YOU will love you again. You don't need to be with someone, you can be single and happy. You don't need anyone to love you because you will love yourself. And that's all you need in life.
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