I still love my ex. Should I feel this way?
Anonymous
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Jun 27, 2015
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It's pretty normal to still love an ex. You loved this person enough to be in a relationship so it's not likely the feelings will automatically go away once the relationship ends.
The thing about feelings is there's not real wrong or right way to feel in certain circumstances. If you told me you sat in your room looking at old photos of your ex all day, then I'd tell you that probably wasn't a good idea. But the simple act of feeling is part of being human. Likely, those feelings will eventually fade as you put more distance between yourself and that relationship.
Anonymous
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Aug 15, 2015
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It's normal to still have feelings for your ex. Everyone gets over their exes at their own pace. It may take some people a few days and other may take a few months or even years to get over their exes. It all depends on the situation and the type of person you are
AlexandreSilva98
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Oct 18, 2014
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Yes, it's usual to feel that way. The best thing you possibly can do is to go out and meet some people who will make you forget about her!
Anonymous
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Oct 28, 2014
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If s/he doesn't feel the same way. Don't push yourself into him/her. It might be bad at you and for him.
Uniqueg
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Oct 30, 2014
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It's totally normal, feelings just don't go away just because you guys aren't together any more, with time and support things should get better!
Kyra0608
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Oct 29, 2014
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It depends on how long you two have been broken up, if its only been a few days then yes of course! you where in love, its normal to still love this person, if its been a while since you two broke up, thats okay too! These things take time.
OliviaSwan
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Jul 30, 2015
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"Should" or "should not" isn't really the question here, since there usually aren't any right or wrong answers when it comes to feelings and emotions. It's normal to still love someone you once shared a connection with, even if that person has hurt you in the past.
MrHector
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Jun 27, 2015
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Love is a complex feeling and it does not simply vanish. While we do usually forget our old loves, it does take time so residual feelings after a breakup, and even some time after that, are completely normal.
NMalmstrom
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Jun 28, 2015
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It is okay to still love person you loved a month, year, ten years ago. You once had everything,it doesn't mean it is bad to still love him/her, you can't say it to your heart as a demand.
Sp00nman
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Jul 1, 2015
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Still loving an ex is a normal thing. Experiences you both have had mean a lot to you obviously more to you than the other partner. Relationships are a two way street, not a one way street.
mwhit00
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Aug 15, 2015
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After being with someone, you will be emotionally attached to them.Don't feel bad about this feeling
Anonymous
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Jan 9, 2016
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Being a human it's pretty natural to feel that way .. But again u should know whm to let in ur life and whom not ! EX became EX because of some reason!
Anonymous
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Mar 17, 2016
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loving your ex is not a sin... but crying on the past and not letting yourself moving forward will let you face challenges..
Milfath
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Mar 19, 2016
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Why not? is there something wrong with that? love is a spontaneus sensation,it's completely normal!
TeenWolf
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Mar 24, 2016
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Yes but only for a period of time if your over do It and keep your love for he/she then this would be called love addiction
Dariana
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Mar 25, 2016
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Yes. You shared some feeling and they were true you cant just get over it. But it will eventualy pass but it is totaly normal.
heyitsveraxoxo
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Mar 25, 2016
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It's quite normal to continue to feel attraction toward an ex, especially if they broke up with you. The important part is that you gradually get stronger and don't consume yourself with thoughts of what "could've been". Hope it works out for you.
Bettershapes
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Apr 22, 2016
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You are definitely allowed to feel this way, it took me 4 years to finally get over my boyfriend. It seems like the end of the world and that things wont change, but they will and they do. Eventually you will stop noticing him, you'll stop caring about what he's posting on social media, and you wont want to talk to him anymore. You wont miss him. I don't know if you ever really do stop loving him, but you'll learn to deal with it, and accept it and he wont matter anymore. There's a reason he isnt in your life anymore. He's gone now, so that someone better can come along. It may be the hardest thing in the world to see right now, but there is someone better out there for you. There will always be someome better than the last. I promise.
CarmenCares
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Jun 10, 2016
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No one can tell you how you should or should not feel, even if they did it would not change how you really feel. If you still love your ex, contemplate if there were things left unresolved and if there was anything you would feel comfortable doing to reach out. If not, time will heal all wounds. Maybe a bit of you will always love them, and that's not wrong either. You can be stronger every day from carrying that love with you.
JNBH1511
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Apr 1, 2018
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Love is unlimited. You’ll never know how much love you’re able to give and especially to feel. It’s normal to feel this way, to still love someone even after days, months or years go by. And it may fade way or maybe it won’t. You can’t change your feelings, but you can learn to let go. I still love this silly boy. I met him when I was only thirteen. I barely knew what love was and I certainly did not know what it can do to you. Many years later I still love him. He still crosses my mind every once in a while and I still compare him to every guy I meet. You know, loving him isn’t wrong. I would still date that cute guy I saw in Starbucks today, I would still spent that long summer night kissing the boy I chased for twee weeks in Spain and I would definitely marry the guy who loves me more than anything. Love is unlimited. And you need to accept the love you feel for someone you can no longer have. Learn to let go and you WILL find happiness again.
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