I still love my ex. Should I feel this way?
alwaysbelieve8
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Jan 2, 2016
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The worst thing about time is it takes time ...and eventually it will fade away but if this feelings are being an obstacle and making it hard for you to move on than yes you should think about it and let go ...
Brandonbadn
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Jan 2, 2016
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it is normal, if you developed feelings towards any person and shared memories and aspects of your life with them it's ridiculous to ask yo to forget him/her, those feelings may never disappear but with time they will slowly get smaller, to the point that if you see her/him again in 4 or 5 years maybe you won't help but smile, but you'll be aable to continue on with your own life. The important thing here is things can't be expected to change from one day to another, feelings are no exception, even if the other person hurt you. It's only matter of time.
foreveralistener
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Jan 3, 2016
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It is very normal. It is hard to get over someone easily, but if he is no good for you, try occupying your time by reading books, doing activities, going out with your friends and eventually you will find someone who truly appreciates you and you will get your mind off of him. :)
xwallflower
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Jan 3, 2016
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Break ups are always hard. When a couple break up is not because they don't love each other anymore, sometimes one of them still love his/her patner, even when they have break up a long time ago
Anonymous
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Jan 6, 2016
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There is no specific way to feel. Feeling that way only shows that there are things that you still don't discover about yourself and will need time to.
Anonymous
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Jan 6, 2016
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Just because you broke up doesn't mean all of your feelings for them are gone. It took me 7 months to stop loving my ex and he was very unkind to me after we broke up. You will get over them I promise
Anonymous
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Jan 6, 2016
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Its completely normal to still have feelings for your ex after a break up
it takes the normal human being 7 months and 21 days to get over someone
positiveLove82
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Jan 7, 2016
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There's nothing wrong with you feeling this way. When you truly love someone and it doesn't work out, it is completely normal for you to still have feelings. Maybe you need closure or maybe you just need more time to get over this person.
Anonymous
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Jan 7, 2016
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It's totally normal to love someone. If you didn't, you wouldn't have been with them in the first place. And even thought you broke up, or they hurt you or, whatever the situation, that feeling doesn't just disappear automatically. But the stronger love here, is the love for yourself. To know the right and best thing to do for you to move forward with your like in a content, healthy way. Even if it is hard. Give yourself some time, and space. Do things that you want to do, and clear your mind to actually understand all the reasons and sides to what happened. Forgive them, and forgive yourself.
caringIceCream67
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Jan 8, 2016
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Still having love for ex os quiet comon.. dont worry about it..
It takes time to getbout of this love feeling and getting hatred towards someone who was so spl for us is really hard...
I guess its okay to feel so but you will have to koveon as time goes by.
ZedGirl
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Jan 8, 2016
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I understand how you feel, I've felt the same way, in fact I feel the same way right now. What I've found is that I can love someone and yet not necessarily be "In Love" with them. I still love my first boyfriend from when I was 12 years old, I still love my boyfriend of ten years, whom I just broke up with a few days ago. It is perfectly normal to feel this way, remind yourself that your feelings are valid and normal. Take a deep breath when you feel overwhelmed by these emotions and then just let go. Loving your ex also doesn't mean you'll never love another again, there is room in your heart for the future. There is room in your heart for yourself.
Anonymous
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Jan 8, 2016
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It's absolutely normal to love and suffer.All emotions are normal since we are human beings.Even animals feel love.
TimtheNurse
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Jan 9, 2016
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It is totally okay to feel this way. It just matters how you deal with your feelings. Often it is better to face your feelings and lay them to rest instead of hiding them. It might take you a lot of time to finally get over your ex but eventually the time will come.
Anonymous
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Jan 9, 2016
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It's perfectly normal to feel this way, whether it was a postivie or negative experience.. No matter how you feel is ok. We just need to work through our feelings to get to the other side and move on. Every relationship experience helps us learn what kind of person we are, and what kind of person is best for us. It may feel like you'll never find feel this way about anyone else, or that no one will love you as much, but it's not true at all. There is always someone else.
organticBraid80
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Jan 9, 2016
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It is normal after you have broken up and you may feel like this for a while so don't feel like your the odd one out.
Anonymous
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Jan 9, 2016
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I cannot speak from experience because I have never been in a relationship, but I did have a crush on someone I went to high school with for 6 long years. There was a part of me that worried I would never get over him. But within the last year, my feelings have dissipated. He'll pop into my head every now and then, but generally I don't think about him anymore. I learned from this that no feeling is ever permanent, particularly pain. Pain is temporary. Another feeling will come along and replace it. Love, joy, peace, passion. And I also learned that you may always have someone burned in the back of your brain. But that's just it. They are at the back of your brain, taking up a very small space. This leaves a lot of room for other thoughts and feelings. Feelings for your family, friends, job, pet, hobbies, passions. Life is not hopeless. Even when it achingly feels like it is, it's not. There is always hope. I promise you.
Anonymous
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Jan 10, 2016
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It is okay to still love an ex, you can't simply not fall out of love. That love is always going to be there, it gets easier over time. Try to do activities to get your mind off things!
GrowthMindset17
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Jan 10, 2016
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Yes it is normal. That person is still important to you. Maybe you should try it again with them? Or you could try to move on.
arcticunicorn
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Jan 10, 2016
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Getting over people is very challenging. It will take time to get over your ex especially if they hurt you. Take all the time you need and don't feel bad if the other person moved on. It doesn't make your value as a person less. Don't rush things and don't try looking for someone new because it will make you feel even worst.
beautifulLight666
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Jan 10, 2016
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of course, but question the way you were treated, was it positive or negative,
remember if it was healthy or unhealthy
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