I still love my ex. Should I feel this way?
heartfulmusings89
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Jul 9, 2015
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There is no specific way you should feel. Just because someone becomes an ex, that doesn't mean the love you had for them goes away. Love doesn't work like that. However in due time, you will be able to move on and love others.
NDS369
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Jul 9, 2015
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You have to ask yourself why did the relationship end? If it was initiated by you then there will be compromises you will have to make. Can You?
If it was by your ex, then is it worth getting hurt again?
Mayanasry17
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Jul 9, 2015
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He is your ex for a reason. what i mean to say is that you guys broke up for a reason, get over him and get back on your feet.
heartsNcupcakes
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Jul 9, 2015
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Its natural to feel that way. Normally in those situations I find its healthiest to stay away from your ex until youre ready to further dissect your relationship and see the faults in it. Why it didn't work out. Take some time away to clear your head and be able to see things from a different perspective.
Anonymous
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Jul 10, 2015
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It is quite natural, but after sometime it has to go away or it will get in the way of your life. You have to stop thinking about that person and move on.
Imhereforyou88
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Jul 10, 2015
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Depends on what he/she did to you if you just "broke" up that's its normal to have feelings for him/her. If he cheated, hurt you physically or emotionly than its hard to say because if and when you love someone and they hurt you many times or break up with u many times of course your going to want Him/her back because they were your bf/gf. Message me for more support of needed
OmegaZen
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Jul 10, 2015
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It's something that will either go away with time or will stay with you always. The memories and feelings will remain there if the relationship was great, especially if it ended because of circumstances not related to the relationship, such as one having to move far away. The best thing to do is focus on your life now and carry on, using distractions and maintaining the relationships you have now. There's nothing wrong with still having feelings for an ex, but don't dwell on the thoughts and continue with life. Everything unfolds one way or another.
YourNotAlone27
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Jul 11, 2015
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Your ex is ex your for a reason, it doesn't just happen. You shouldn't feel that way it takes time to stop loving someone.
Anonymous
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Jul 11, 2015
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It is normal to still love an ex because when you were together, you shared many memorable times together. Usually people like to remember the good and fun times in a relationship and sometimes that love doesn't go away.
StevensLion
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Jul 12, 2015
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It's perfectly fine to still love someone after the relationship has ended. You're not going to be able to immediately stop feeling love for them if you truly did care. However, if they treated you bad, you owe it to yourself not to go back to them. It's okay to still care for them, but don't put yourself back in a bad or harmful situation.
Anonymous
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Jul 12, 2015
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Its okay to feel this way because youve spent times with him be it through sad, happy, or plain times but there is nothing much for you to do but be happy with what you have right now and learn to grow individually.
Anonymous
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Jul 12, 2015
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Yes, it takes a while to let go of someone you cared about deeply. You'll think about them and you will still care and love them for quite some time, but after a while those feelings will fade.
Stormearth
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Jul 12, 2015
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It's normal to still love someone even after a break up. It's not wrong at all. It's not every person that get's over a person just like that.
fruitySunshine64
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Jul 12, 2015
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Yes. It is normal to still be in love with your ex. Base on the time you spend together or the things that tie you and the person; maybe anniversary or weekly activities you both did in the past. You will not easily let go off these feelings unless you have found different activities to do that a new. Change your surrounding and clear the things that remind you of the person.
friendlyEars70
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Jul 15, 2015
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Feeling love for an ex is completely normal! You have memories that you will always share wit this person and caring for them, even after a break up is not only normal, but expected. If you were in a healthy relationship that came to end, it is sometimes hard to let go of those feelings of love you had for one another, but trying accept them, and allowing your memories of the relationship to help you move forward will always open your eyes to greater things that are just around the corner.
Shannon1999
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Jul 15, 2015
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It is natural to still love someone after breaking up with them. You're used to the routine of spending all your time with them and getting their attention. It will take time to get into a different routine without involving them in it! You will move on in your own time, you won't just wake up one day and magically be over them.
Anonymous
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Jul 17, 2015
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I think this feeling is normal. Love is not a switch that can be turned on and off. It takes time to build up and will take time to be let go. Time does heal, and I think with a situation like this you need to give yourself time to heal and accept how you feel.
Anonymous
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Jul 17, 2015
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It is natural to still love someone that you had a long and withstanding relationship with, so it isnt wrong to feel that way.
Moodswinger
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Jul 17, 2015
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Sometimes it is good to recall people's face. You'll get over it
Dont worry.alright, dont think too much
Anonymous
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Jul 19, 2015
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If you didnt love your ex, then what your ex meant to you wasnt as strong as you once thought, Your ex was the one who was there for you and all the good things you saw in them isnt just going to disappear after you break up, itll take time and you might still always have that little part that will love him
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