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I still love my ex. Should I feel this way?

Profile: AloneAcneLove
AloneAcneLove on Jun 24, 2015
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Put your hand on your heart and ask yourself. Do you really want him back? Do you really want to save your relationship. If your heart says yes, go for it. Despite the rejection, you need to be true to yourself.
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Profile: Hapexamendios
Hapexamendios on Jun 24, 2015
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It takes a while to get over an ex sometimes. It's normal to still have feelings for a while. Do your best not to dwell on them or wallow in sadness, though. I know that's easier said than done. Some people don't like platitudes but this one is appropriate: Pain eases over time.
Profile: HappyTea
HappyTea on Jun 25, 2015
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Sure! All feelings, regardless of how out-of-place they may seem, are valid and real to the individual feeling them. After the closing of a relationship, the residual feelings still exist. It takes time, and a lot of self-evaluation, to begin to truly gain closure on those emotions.
Profile: Isave
Isave on Jun 25, 2015
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love and commitment are two different things. one can love someone but may not be in a relationship with them. love is a natural thing, relationships a re man made. now if you should feel this way or not! Unrequited love is painful. if you dont getting together in the future, this can take a toll on you. so try to convert it into platonic love if possible and then day by day try to get over him. it can be real tough but i know you can do it, if that's what you want.
Profile: electricBlanket58
electricBlanket58 on Jun 26, 2015
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It's normal to feel this way. I have been in the same boat as you but I went back and now we don't talk or anything so I moved on.
Profile: Marissa2163
Marissa2163 on Jun 26, 2015
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It is completely normal to feel this way. Feelings are natural and take time to get through. Allow yourself the time to think things over. It will be beneficial to you.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 26, 2015
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It is ok to still love your ex. I mean you were a couple at one time, who cared for each other. Feelings don't just vanish from one day to the other. Give yourself time and meet other people. You will get over him/her someday.
Profile: niceMermaid44
niceMermaid44 on Jun 26, 2015
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Yes. It's normal to feel like that.
Profile: reemahere2help
reemahere2help on Jun 26, 2015
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It is normal to still have feelings for your ex, this only goes to show that your feelings for them were genuine. Sometimes the both of them have genuine feelings but it doesnot work out between the two for a lot reasons. It is totally upto the you if want to give your ex and yourself another chance but give yourself some time and space to understand the reason why you wanted to breakup in the first place. Time and space will let you analyze the reasons and situation that led your breakup and how to work it out if you want to get back together or not.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 27, 2015
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Love is just an eternal feeling there is nothing wrong to fell but it's wrong to implore our love on others
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Anonymous on Jun 27, 2015
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it is natural to feel that way , that you miss your ex . But know in the first place why you broke up with him/her
Profile: Kaelasykes
Kaelasykes on Jun 27, 2015
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It's normal. You loved them, you were commited to them. And if things ended on good terms, then you are just a little stuck on them.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 28, 2015
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It can take a while for people to get over and forget their ex. So I'd say that it is normal to feel that way, as passes those feelings are going to disappear.
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Anonymous on Jun 28, 2015
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We don't always know the right way to feel. There probably is no "correct" way to feel in a situation this sensitive. We should embrace our feelings instead of questioning them.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 28, 2015
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Its totally normal to feel this way, many people actually do! Just keep in mind that they're your ex for a reason
Profile: paul1982
paul1982 on Jun 28, 2015
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As a person you are an individual. Who is to say what you should and shouldn't feel. You are an individual and like everything else about you your feelings will change in their own time and at their own speed.
Profile: kashu510
kashu510 on Jul 1, 2015
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Having feelings for an ex is common. From my personal experience, with time and distance, those feelings begin to fade away.
Profile: KoalaHug
KoalaHug on Jul 1, 2015
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It is totally normal that you can feel this way, to love your ex. But sometimes it's for the best to try let him/her go sadly, no matter how hard it might be. My advice would be to try find an distraction eventho it will be hard sadly.
Profile: GirlsNeedGirls
GirlsNeedGirls on Jul 1, 2015
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Having feelings for an ex is a really normal thing. Losing a love one or something that we loved can be really hard at times but sooner or later you'll get over it.
Profile: BLMlove15
BLMlove15 on Jul 1, 2015
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It's normal to feel this way sometimes, and you shouldn't feel ashamed about it. You can still have love for someone you were close with. If the relationship was meant to end, keep it that way.
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