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I love two different people. What should I do?

Profile: Activemind96
Activemind96 on Feb 5, 2017
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It's important to considered both of the peoples feelings whilst making a decision on what you should do. If you were to way up the pros and cons for both of them but still love both of them someone could end up getting hurt and you'd loose both of them.
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Profile: traveller88
traveller88 on Feb 9, 2017
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Reflect within yourself and make the decision that you feel will make you happier in the long term.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 22, 2017
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I was there and I talked openly about it with both of them. I tried to know them better, to see where there was real interest from their and my side, and after sometime I tried to stay alone and understand what my heart was asking me during this period where I was distant from them, I have to say also, that one of these two people wasnt too "available" for many reasons. In the end I was interested in the unavailable person. In order to be honest with myself first, and with the other two guys,I cut off contacts with the other (available) guy and I accepted the fact that the unavailable guy whom I loved, couldnt have been there for me, ever. Still, I think this might be also a possible choice. The fact that a person loves you "more" than someone else, it doesnt have to be the "only" reason why you choose him/ her. Your feelings too are crucial in a relationship. I dont think that the "available" guy would have been happy if I chose him "just because" the other one was unavailable. So my advice is: take a chance, and if it doesnt work, at least you could say that you tried and that now is over. And that maybe a third better partner is waiting for you around teh corner :) Good luck :)
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 26, 2017
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I believe that you might not be in love with any, but maybe spending more time with both and keeping an eye on details of how they treat you and their characteristics may help.
Profile: Jamesgabriel00
Jamesgabriel00 on Apr 5, 2017
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Personally, I would sit down and think about who makes me happiest. Think about who understands you better, and can relate to your life but is stable enough to support you during your dark times that may happen in the future.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 7, 2017
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Back away from both until you clear your head. You might end up losing them both if you play them both. Think of the person you'd rather tell exciting things to, wake up to, and I always look for who treats there mother right.
Profile: bubblesandhappiness110
bubblesandhappiness110 on May 31, 2017
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Loving more than one person is always a complicated thing. I usually try to weigh out the pros and cons, to make sure I can make the right choice, but the more time you spend with both of them, the easier and more natural will the answer be. Just remember to be honest and true to yourself!
Profile: joyousSalamander76
joyousSalamander76 on Jun 21, 2017
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You must decide which person loves you back. If the love is unrequited, you're just going to end up hurting yourself. You need to make sure that the love from the right person is reciprocated.
Profile: ELFcath
ELFcath on Jun 25, 2017
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Loving two different people is totally unavoidable. If you are in a relationship, there will be some point in your relationship that you will somehow grow tired of your partner or you will get used to the routine of your relationship and you will get attracted to other people. If I love two different people while I'm in a relationship I will choose the second because if truly love the first one I will never find another.
Profile: ASilentObserver
ASilentObserver on Jul 17, 2017
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I guess if you loved first too much, then you never looked for second love. If you fell for second person, then go for second one. Or take a minute to pause and think who is better person between two. And, whosoever is better, go with him. Always look for a better choice and decision rather than being right.
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