I can't get over my ex boyfriend. What should I do?
Nali98
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Jan 23, 2016
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Know that you're a strong, beautiful person and ANYONE, would be greatly blessed to have you. Know that it is his loss, and take this time to love yourself, dicover yourself, and explore the world as an independent individual with no boundaries. Slau, dear, SLAY 😙
SparksOfLight
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Feb 19, 2016
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Remember that it's okay to feel this way. Also remember that your worth is not dependent on whether you are in a relationship. You should practice self care: do things which make you feel good, especially things you would have been unable to do while in a relationship. Even if it feels strange, celebrate being single.
ElleFriend
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Mar 12, 2016
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Get icecream watch Netflix and smile!! Don't ever cry over a boy it's definitely not with it! Keep smiling guys :)
Jerome28
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Mar 15, 2016
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Believe it or not, you're getting over him right now. No matter what you do, no matter where you go, some part of you is getting over him. Time heals. In time, you'll look back and you'll be over him. Make sure and realize it; even if you didn't want to get over him, some part of you will definitely get over him.
The pain we live with a one of our best teachers, at least in some ways. It's a beautiful thing to love someone, even if things don't work out. You still love him, and that's beautiful. You want the very best for him - even if that means a breakup. That proves that you really love him, that you're not just concerned about your own happiness. Nope. You want him to be happy, even without you.
More than that though, take very good care of yourself. Do the things that you love to do. Move forward. Take that course. Study that subject. Learn that instrument. Go to the concert, the movie, the play. Be with friends. Develop and self-actualize.
Anonymous
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Jan 13, 2016
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it may take time to let go but know that the memories will never fade but eventually we move on in time
Alyssaaaaa
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Jan 15, 2016
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Getting over an ex boyfriend takes time. You should dwell on him and the breakup less and focus on yourself more! Reconnect with an old hobby, discover a new one, read books, catch up with friends, pamper yourself up, write... Reconnect with yourself!
Kanemawhite
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Jan 20, 2016
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A breakup can signify a new beginning. Therefore, cleaning and organizing your personal space will leave you feeling refreshed and prepared for the new things to come. A mess can be overwhelming and depressing, and will just add to your stress level.[2] Keeping busy with tidying your space doesn't require a lot of brain power, but it does require just enough focus to keep you from recycling pain.
HazelEyes2
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Jan 27, 2016
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It is important to grieve the loss of the relationship and to feel and release the pain that resulted from the broken relationship. This takes time. Forgiving any hurts is another helpful piece of advice. This is not easy but you may slowly start to realize that UNforgiveness hurts you more than the other party. It may take a while to get over a relationship but even if you can see a little progress over time, I am sure that will encourage you. I have heard that grief doesn't present itself in a neat package. Sometimes it is two steps forward and three back. Time also helps but I don't necessarily think time all by itself is the answer. I hope this helps and/or encourages someone.
Anonymous
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Mar 9, 2016
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Break ups are tough. Different people deal with them differently. It might involve a lot of crying, or even depression. The most important thing whilst going through a break up, I think, is to remember you are a person and as such worthy of respect. Respect yourself, and try not to do anything you will regret later. And if you do, it is not the end of the world either, it will help you grow as a person, and that is all that matters.
CurrySoup12
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Sep 27, 2016
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Revisit your memories of him and see if you still see a future with him? If not, then it is time to move on.
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