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I can't get over my ex after 5 years. What should I do?

Profile: AmbitiousDragon
AmbitiousDragon on Mar 16, 2016
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Please put thought into it before taking a step. Getting over an ex can be tough and is reasonable. If you feel like it, you can either point out what you never liked about them or have a chat with them, letting them know how you really feel. Since there was a time you two were together, they'll probably understand and you can work out whatever works best for both of you.
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 23, 2016
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Have fun! take your mind off it somehow by seeing a film, going out for a meal, go shopping, whatever you want! :)
Profile: LibbyKate
LibbyKate on Mar 27, 2016
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It can be hard to let go sometimes, even when we want to. What do you feel is keeping you interested in this person?
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 30, 2016
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You should talk to your ex and see if he still has feelings for you. Also,talk to a trusted friend or family member and visit the 7 Cups Breakups Section.
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Anonymous on Apr 7, 2016
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You should get expert help...this is not normal and not healthy either.. Please get help immediately
Profile: CaringPuppy1
CaringPuppy1 on Apr 7, 2016
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Getting over an ex isn't easy. With any loss there is a grieving process that follows. Sometimes all you can do is wait it out. There is no time limit to the grieving process. There are steps you could take toward moving on though.
Profile: BatmanAtYourService
BatmanAtYourService on Apr 10, 2016
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Contact her/him if he/she wants the same. If not, that alone will give you a reason to move on and make something out of your life. Do what you love. There are numerous thing to work into. And many new awesome people to fall for.
Profile: Louise13
Louise13 on Apr 15, 2016
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You should try forgetting him by convincing yourself that you no longer need him/her. You should see other guys/ girls :) Do not let yourself be lock up and stuck in the past. MOVE ON!
Profile: Shinyhappyperson45
Shinyhappyperson45 on Apr 15, 2016
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It is important for you to gain purpose in your life! You need things to make you so preoccupied that you feel as though you don't need your ex or need to think about him, find a hobbies or something you enjoy doing!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 21, 2016
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Try to find the real reason why we can't get over and sometimes the best choice is let the time flow.
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