I can't get over my divorce. What should I do?

Accept the reality of your divorce. Make the decision to take control. Do small actions every day to create the life you want.

Divorces can be very hard to get over. But this is the time when u need to be strong and think of all the sacrifices you made to make your marriage work and now that you freed yourself from those Ties, you have every right to do what u believe in. Treat yourself. Love yourself. Do things that make you happy, try new stuff, make like adventurous. You tried falling in love with someone else. Didn't work quite well. Now try falling in love with yourself.

Its normal to feel the pain of divorce for a long time. Its one of the most stressful things any person can go through. I would suggest that you keep living your life, focus on yourself for a while and do many things you enjoy. although that may be hard now, if you try slowly to get that pleasure back from doing things for yourself it will help you be able to cope better. After time maybe try some dating again.

Try to share your thoughts to a friend whom you could trust–since talking to anyone about your thoughts, reduces the problem.

Never give up on yourself, you need to find peace from you doing things for yourself, make yourself happy and give what u really deserve so u don't have to think of past what ever happened and keep yourself busy with things that you do to make yourself happy.

Go out with some friends! Have a drink, tour the city, go shopping, just have fun! Great way to take your mind off things!

Divorce is always a tough thing to process, but the best thing in these situations is to relax. Don't stress yourself out because of this, it'll only make matters worse. Things will fall into place on its own, don't rush it.

Seek help from a professional if this is causing depression or sucidal thoughts. It's okay to be upset, many people know what you are going through. Maybe join a support group. It takes time to become happy again.

Spend time with your family or your friends. Tell them your feelings. It takes time to heal.

Try to do something that you like...what ever floats your boat. Focus on yourself and take care of yourslef...keep yourself busy! Look for a new journey in life...trust that whats coming is more and that should be exciting enough to make you get over a "boring" past.