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I broke up with him even though I do love him and he loves me. I had to! How can I move on from someone I can't find a reason to hate?

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Anonymous on Dec 6, 2017
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By giving myself time to grief. Accepting the pain. And focus myself in family my work and my friends.
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Harshac on Dec 6, 2017
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I can find the ans in your question as you say, if you don't have any reason to hate him except to love him why don't you be with him instead of going away. You will have to be with someone you love instead of going away.
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Anonymous on Dec 8, 2017
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First of all. Why do you even want to move on when you love him and he loves you? Try to work things out.
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Anonymous on Dec 8, 2017
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We will always love those people and I know it is hard to have reasons to hate them just because we want to move on. But you have reasons and those reasons are yours, you move on through time. Heal yourself and tell yourself that you had to do it for something that must be important for you to breakup with him. You don't need to hate a person in order to move on, you just have to realize that there are things in this world that we cannot achieve.
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bunty2040 on Dec 9, 2017
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engaged in something you will enjoy. Keep yourself engrossed in work. There are many more wonderful things in this world, explore them
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Anonymous on Dec 13, 2017
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It is all going to be okay. You are beautiful the way you are and I know you will find someone better than him who can take care of you and love you with all his heart. Life moves ahead so you should ahead with it rather than being stuck. You might have other good things waiting for you.
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CausticNikk on Dec 15, 2017
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It will be hard but think about all the opportunities ahead of you. Your life is full of choices you get to make! Instead of dwelling on not having this guy think of all the things you can do now that you couldn’t do before because you were with him.
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PonchoStef on Dec 22, 2017
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Focus on yourself, clear your mind and take the time needed to heal... if it is mend to be things will work out in the end
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ezraleeeee on Dec 22, 2017
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The same as you would with any other relationship. You don't need to hate somebody for you to be able to move on. Keep yourself occupied away from thoughts of them, keep super duper busy as much as you can. Break-ups are different for everybody and everyone has different tactics of coping with it. I hope you'll be alright
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TheHoneyDoll on Jan 4, 2018
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That really is a tough situation to go through and learning to hate someone isn't always the answer. With all of my break ups, I look for lessons to be learned and remind myself that better will come for me. I personally believe everything happens for a reason. Over time, the pain will get less painful. Above all, be patient with yourself and do all you can to relax and focus on yourself. :)
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