How to forgive someone who cheated on you?
KindBean2002
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Oct 8, 2016
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I believe you can ask this person if the person tehy chated with you on mean something to them. Expect and crave an honest answer. If you feel safe and loved, and want to put the cheating behind you.. you can try to forgive them although it's hard
smoltimes
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Oct 15, 2016
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Accept that as people, we are not perfect. You need to take steps to trust them again and remember that everyone makes mistakes. If you want a future with them, you need to let go of their mistakes.
MxSkeleton
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Oct 16, 2016
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To forgive someone that cheated on you, takes a lot of strength. Speaking from personal experience, it is not an easy task, but very doable. Look to see if they are truly apologetic in what they do, or say, and if you are willing to trust them again, or even, if you so choose, give them a second chance. You must be willing to let go of their previous actions, as everyone is not perfect, and start from square one. The best possible way to do this, is first, getting closure as to why they did do it. Just remember, no matter what they say, It isn't your fault they cheated.
Anonymous
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Oct 19, 2016
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i hated him so much for cheating on me. i felt like cursing at him i felt like wishing bad things on him. until i felt like it wasnt worth it anymore. i wanted him to be happy. i learned to let go. and moved on.
BeautifulOutlaw
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Oct 29, 2016
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They have to understand, that what they did was wrong. You also have to figure out why they did what they did in the first place. They can say they're sorry a thousand times, but actions speak louder than words. Once you find out a legitimate reason on why, it'll help to move on.
Butterfly121
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Nov 3, 2016
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Cheating in a relationship is a very big betrayal of trust. It can be very hard to forgive someone who has violated your trust that way. Try and look inside yourself and see if you can trust this person again, and if you feel its possible to have trust in your relationship again in the future.
ElliotIsGoingPlaces
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Nov 5, 2016
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I think you forgive someone who cheated on you just by being honest with him/her more. Try having your partner be more honest too when it comes to all of that. Also, learn how to forget. If you trust your partner, then it will be okay and won't happen again possibly.
Xhanced
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Jan 4, 2017
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I think that forgiving someone else is hard, because we all are self conscious about ourselves already, and when it comes to cheating its hard to think you've been placed below someone else. My advice in this is that you should know that its not your fault, and that self love is self respect, and with self respect forgiving is possible, without it I feel that you are still vulnerable to it happening again.
mzpro10
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Jan 15, 2017
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This is a really big question. Forgiving can mean so many things to different people. The real solution is understanding the situation first. In some cases a partner cheating is a big sign for leaving the relationship. Whereas sometimes it can be a forgivable mistake. There is no definite answer on how to forgive someone who cheated, But a good start would be both parties recognizing what and why whatever happened, happened.
Anonymous
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Jan 18, 2017
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Realize that you're better than the person who cheated on you. No matter how hurt you are, what happened happened. You don't need to go back to talking/loving someone who cheated on you, but forgiveness is important for you to feel at peace. Make sure to forgive completely when you do finally manage to do so.
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