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MxSkeleton
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Number of ratings126 Number of reviews53 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish, Dutch Listener sinceOct 15, 2016 Last activein last 6 months GenderNon-Binary PathStep 435 People helped278 Chats1,383 Group support chats128 Listener group chats45 Forum posts246 Forum upvotes263
Bio

IMPORTANT NOTICES:

Currently part time! Not taking long term or new members!

My bio, roles and other important information are located below. This section is just for recent developments and notices :) I am currently NOT taking new long term chats.


Schedule:


Want to schedule a chat with me? Click on this cute little face to use doodle to schedule a weekday chat with me! ＼（＾▽＾）／ My weekends are free.


My Best Topics:

Anxiety/Panic Attacks

Depression

LGBTQ+

Imposter Syndrome and related feelings.

Intimacy support*

General Support

no sex chats please, that's against the ToS and guidelines of 7cupsoftea.com*


My Roles （〃・ω・〃）

Verified Listener

Former Involvement:

Appreciation Team Member

Former Discussion Writer for the Anxiety Sub Community

Former Anxiety Forum Supporter

Positivity and Gratitude

Anxiety Forum Supporter

Former Social Soldiers Team Member

Former 7cups Supporter

Former 7cups Welcoming Committee

Former Safety Patrol Team



Hey there, my name is MxSkeleton, but you may call me Skelly, Mx Skelly, Skele or just plain old Mx (Mx is pronounced like mix) I'm a Verified Listener that has been a part of this community for a few years. I have completed several bouts of training both on 7cups and have done suicide hotline training, (all crisis chats on 7Cups will be referred as per the terms and guidelines of 7Cups.com). I am still accepting short term member chats. I am non-binary, and my pronouns are they/them. I love travelling, photography, art, videogames, cyber security and aiding others. I also enjoy cooking. I speak Dutch comfortably though not perfectly, and English natively. Feel free to drop in and just say hello, talk about your day, I would enjoy your company very much. I am sending you all positive vibes and I hope you feel fantastic. 


Listener Twin



Recent forum posts
Cyber Security and Mental Health
General Support / by MxSkeleton
Last post
 May 3rd, 2020
...See more Hey there everyone!! I'm making this post to recognize something that happens in a now very growing community. I'm hoping one day to make a community specifically for it, but I wanted to bring awareness to the Imposter Syndrome feelings that come withing the cybersecurity and programming communities and the people that belong to these communities. I know how it feels as I too experience it quite often, and lately, I've noticed there's been an incline in people who really struggle with these feelings. I just want to say that you are SEEN and you can let your voice be HEARD. Your feelings are just as valid, and although it seems really difficult, I promise that you belong here and that you are a valuable asset to the world. I want to use this thread as an opportunity for people who struggle with feeling like they don't belong because they aren't good enough because there are people who are better. We see all the time through social media that there are all these successes but no one talks about the failures we see to achieve those successes. It's very difficult to cope with some days, as even I myself last night didn't consider myself to be worthy to call myself knowledgeable in this field because I felt like I wasn't enough, but my support circle whom also work in that field gave me a new perspective about how they feel the same, and that everyone moves at a different pace, and that sometimes we just need a gentle reminder that we do belong and our hard work is appreciated. Having that listening ear was such a relief last night that and I want to provide a very special spot for all of those who struggle with these feelings in cybersecurity, programming, web dev and any other technology-related field. You matter too, and you help make this modern world go around. We appreciate what you do, and we are thankful to have you in our community. If you feel like you are struggling with these feelings, please feel free to reach out to me, or to other listeners to discuss this. You can also comment on your thoughts, feelings, struggles and stories here. We appreciate all of you hard workers out there :)
Why is Forgiveness important to you?
Positivity & Gratitude / by MxSkeleton
Last post
 May 17th, 2020
...See more Hey there everyone! Good to see you all again. A question I have today is, why is forgiveness important to you? How would you define forgiveness and what are ways we can show it? Do you think forgiveness has a good or bad impact on mental health, and is there anything you'd like to add such as a story? To me, forgiveness is very important in healing, and I think can be very beneficial to mental health. What are your thoughts on that?
Challenging times we faced when asked for forgiveness
Positivity & Gratitude / by MxSkeleton
Last post
 May 4th, 2020
...See more Hey everyone! It's been quite awhile since I've been active, but I'm back and happy to contribute a bit again! Let's talk about the most challeneging times we faced when we were asked for forgiveness. What was it like? Can you name the emotions you felt when you were asked? Did you have to think about it. Was there pressure, and did you forgive the person regardless? Being asked for forgiveness can cause a lot of emotions like, anxiety, stress and even depression! It puts us in a spot to appeal to our empathy and often times we are not always ready to forgive the person. It can be difficult when faced with these questions, and sometimes you aren't left with time to think about it, and ask yourself if you're ready to take this step into healing and move forward. Often peoples actions even the smallest, affect our lives permanently and it can be difficult to let those actions go. I have faced times like this myself. I understand how it can be overwhelming emotionally. One time I found particularly difficult, was when I decided to forgive my parents after a particularly helpful therapy session. I thought about it for months, but it was really relieving and I was able to let go a lot of the trauma that had occured that required forgiveness. One of the particular tools I used was to write two letters. One stating why I was upset, and how it deeply hurt me. The other was a letter of forgiveness. It was parctiuarly difficult, but I was able to use this to heal and move forward with my life, and later forgive myself for not giving myself the fighting chance i deserved earlier in life. Forgiveness can play such a big role in our lives and its often overlooked when we address emotions especially in regards to others. Do you have a forgiveness story youd like to share too?
Benefits of Forgiveness
Positivity & Gratitude / by MxSkeleton
Last post
 January 27th, 2019
...See more Forgiving someone can often relieve a burden we've been carrying around, or even allow us to further heal from what has happened. What are 3 benefits of forgiveness? I'll start with a few -An emotional release -Being able to move on -Turning a new leaf with the person :) What are your thoughts? Anything to add? ~~Skelly
Forgiving Yourself
Positivity & Gratitude / by MxSkeleton
Last post
 April 29th, 2020
...See more Forgiving yourself is something a lot of us have to do at times. You, me, our friends, and family. Everyone makes mistakes as they are apart of our learning, and growing in life. What is something you forgave yourself for recently? What steps did you take to forgive yourself? How would you describe the sense of relief you feel when you've forgiven yourself? I recently forgave myself for being a sore loser towards my boyfriend when he beat me fair and square in chess :) I talked it out with my boyfriend and looked at how I could have handled it differently, and asked him if he had forgiven me for it, in which he has, and he asked me to forgive myself. It was like a burden was lifted off my shoulders, when I forgave myself. ~~Skelly 💀
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