How do you earn your partner's trust back?

Do things that show them you care. Be patient and understand that trust takes time. Let them take their time.

It is difficult especially if you have been in a relationship for a long time; it becomes hard to attempt to trust someone again and for you to regain that persons trust. It depends what you've done but a genuine apology usually works; obviously do not expect instant forgiveness, give your partner time to digest everything you've admitted to and also answer ever question he or she has for you better yet respect his or her requests! If your partner asks for space; give it to them and surely they will come back with a decision.

It will take time and effort. Make sure that you do not do the same thing that you have done to loose your partners trust in the 1st place. Keep doing the opposite of it.

Well write them a poem, I had made it once, you might think of using it: ‘Mong Mediterranean lands, Of splendid spangles and sands, Remote from lonely dwells, Far from all routes or rails. In that uncharted desert unknown, I was a stream of droplets sown; Honest and prompt, kind and obedient, Quenching all till they are sufficient. But alas a history that's abandoned, One day everybody was left too stunned; To see river disappear, as if a death, That's when I did lose everybody's faith. Years later, due to a storm at a distant, In this sandy desert so adamant; Little streams now do aggregate, For everyone's thirst to abate. Vision that little streams as sapling, Triumphing after muddy mining; Into toy valleys in shining dunes, Fighting back for their fortunes. There's always a summon from the core, Anyhow, all's trust, I shall restore; Throttling up my pace and my volume, I started again to end my resume. Nothing but a broken glossy glass, Shattering, due to its vicious mass; Time will tick to join all these pieces, Till water to the brink, replenishes. It's a water that's not too grant, Think it as vacuous and vacant; But now filled with virtue and moral, Filled with the belief of the rural. But I ponder ‘bout the mistake I did leave; Either would egress me or simply live - Either to purify me or do so never; If so then marks would adhere forever. Hadn't I did this big and blundering error, In spite my loved ones’ gentle tender. Now, I shall do what I pledged, till clocks spin Promising to turn this desert into a green. Think of the river as me. I dried up, it was my error. But as the river tries to start to flow again, it tries to regain his loved ones’ faith for the unforgivable error it did commit. Sometimes in life some mistakes happen for which you are not responsible (like the river dries up not for his fault but for the sun). So was I. In my case it was my uncontrollable behavior. Things that crop up in our head are not always controllable. For these errors “Sorry” is just a cheap word. So I’ll never say “Sorry”. But shall keep a request to forgive me.

I earn my partners trust ba k by being honest, pitching in on things,giving them 1-1time,sharing what matters most to then and keeping it close,being a friend.....

I would show them that I am a good person and what our relationship is built on and how good we are together

Don't expect trust to fall back into the arms like that, you need to give it time, always be honest, open and make sure you always tell the truth from now on and vow to yourself you will be truthful and honest with yourself and others, you need to establish that love by giving it time. It's important that you remember that things you've done that are extremely bad that you need to remember to never ever do them again and learn from what you did and try to never hurt the person you love again with whatever you've done.

If you’ve messed something, apologise to that person for it. This is a difficult situation you have landed yourself in. It will take time before your partner trusts you again. You have to patient and understanding. Keep apologising regularly but make sure you don’t get annoying. If it’s a certain situation you’ve messed up, try fixing it. Make your partner believe you that this will not happen again. Try convincing them, which will involve a lot of patience and effort. Your partner will take his or her fair share of time. Give them some space and when they’re ready they forgive you and trust you again