How do I tell my boyfriend that I don't want to be with him? (anymore)

try and let him down easy. put yourself in his shoes. let him know that if you’re unhappy in the relationship, is it really a relationship?

I think it's important first to talk about the good side of a relationship and of himself. And then you start talking from your angle, starting with a sentence ''I... ''. For example, ''I feel like I am different now and need to move on with my life. I know what you need and what you're looking for and I'm afraid I can't give it to you anymore. You deserve someone who will love you fully not partially. I feel like I need to move on now and start following my path.'' These are the exact words I said to my ex. I did love him at that time but just felt that our roads are not the same anymore.

Be completely honest with him and keep your reasons personal. Leave absolutely no doubt that you are breaking up with him. The worst thing to do is give him false hope. Your words are powerful and you need to be clear and concise. Don't speak to fast either. Allow him to absorb what you're saying and ask him if he understands. Try to stay calm during the process. He will likely be very upset.

I would tell him in a subtle way. If he is a nice guy and its you not him then let him know that. If he did something to offend and hurt you and thats the reason please let him know what he did wrong so he can understand where you are coming from. If you are not attracted to him anymore but he did nothing wrong I would let him know he did nothing wrong and that it would be better if you were friends. If in any way you could be nice and not break his heart please do so.

It’s a big step to take and it’s important to ensure you’re ready to break it off. Firstly, have you tried to voice the differences that you feel are preventing you from connecting fully? As if no, that would be the first step to take. Many people break things off without taking that first step as they are very afraid to be vulnerable. How does that fit with you. Should you decide, go forward at a time that suits you both and go forth gently. If you are sure, tell your partner that the relationship is not working for you. Then state the reasons why.

I find it best to be upfront and honest. But do it over voice, video, in person and similar, even though it's tough, it's what they deserve. Sit them down, say that you have been thinking about the relationship for a while. Say the truth as to why, but let him down gently. Involve memories and compliments to make it more personal. An example as to what I mean is if you want to say that you don't have feelings for him anymore, you could say something like; "I'm sorry. I can honestly say that you are an amazing person and we have had incredible adventures together, like the time we went to and happened(or anything personal), so I don't know why it is this way (or; and it makes me feel even worse for saying this), but I have lost the feelings that I had and I feel like we're growing in separate directions." Answer any questions he has, get closure for the both of you. If there's hope and he's willing to work through it, while you are too, then take it. And keep in mind that most people go through stages of grief after a relationship, so just having someone to hug, to allow yourself to cry around and share memories with will help a ton. And don't take this too literally as these are my own experiences & thoughts. You need to do what feels right for the both of you. Either way, best of luck. :)

I would recommend that you approach him about the topic in a kind, frank, and honest manner with him. It is normal for relationships to break apart. Sometimes there is a fault in one or both partners, other times there is really not a fault in anybody -- things just don't work out. Regardless, make sure to approach him about it kindly and frankly. Be direct and to the point with him without coming off as harsh or overly court. It is a balancing act, but the important thing is that you communicate your feelings to him honestly.

I suggest being completely honest. Explain to him how you are feeling and the reasons behind such feelings (if you are comfortable with sharing them with him). Coming from someone who has stayed in a relationship much longer then I should have, I know that you have to do what you think is best for yourself. Although it may be difficult to tell him, it is the best thing to do and you must remember to take care of yourself before anyone else. You have my full support and the support of so many others here, and we will be here to help!

If you're able to, pick a time that's good for you both and just sit and talk. He's going to have some questions and strong emotions, it's important you remain calm and answer these. Make sure you're happy and tell the truth and if he's a good guy, he'll understand! Is there a strong reason why you dont want to be with him? If he does something that makes you feel unsafe or unhappy, make sure you contact the appropriate person, and speak to someone you're comfortable with such as a friend, teacher or parent. Let me know if I can help anymore!

I want it to be clear that there is no perfect way of breaking up ... it will always be emotional ,heartbreaking and messing for both partners .However there are ways to lessen the pain experimented and make it a less traumatic event .Firstly being 100% sure of your decision of leaving ...the breakup may shake you up emotionally and you may regret doing so and try to come back which will make it more painful for both of you .Secondly Finding the right words,you know your partner well and you know how his reaction may be .Find the "right" words may make it easier to digest . Thirdly finding the right place and time .I usually recommend a rather neutral and public area at a time of the day /on a day he/she will be calm ,open to discussion and relaxed .My last suggestion is to be honest and frank .Not losing time and being honest about how you feel about the relationship and what you want to do now ..is important .Staying true to yourself and trying to be the nicest possible is the best sign of respect and affection one can give during a breakup instead of delivering all made up sentences caught in movies or songs.i hope this will be useful