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How do I tell my boyfriend I'm not happy?

Profile: katelisalyn
katelisalyn on Jun 7, 2017
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Just be honest. Tell him how you feel. If he loves you, he will listen and understand. Just say everything you feel and be open with him.
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Anonymous on Jun 8, 2017
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Communication is the best way of solving problems. Discussing what is on your mind with someone that important for you saves your relationship and both of you from any unwanted or bad emotions.
Profile: markrt99
markrt99 on Jun 11, 2017
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Sometimes you just gotta spit it out. Communication is number one in a relationship. If you there is none, then it is bound to go downhill. If you are truly not happy, you HAVE to tell your partner so that both of you can work to fix whatever the problem is. Tell your partner in an appropriate time and make sure you do it in a loving and caring way.
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marissaskiss on Jun 14, 2017
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That's one of the hardest things to do but based on my own experience, the best way to tell him is just to tell him. Honesty is the best policy.
Profile: MollyBaker27
MollyBaker27 on Jun 14, 2017
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It may seem like a difficult thing to face, but a relationship that is false is the worst thing to experience. You have to be truthful with him and explain to him how you feel. If he loves you or respects you then he will accept your feelings and move on. If he doesn't, then he was never worth your time in the first place.
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Anonymous on Jun 14, 2017
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You need to be honest. If he cares about you he will listen and understand. If you don't say anything it can make things worse so just ask to have a chat and be up front with him.
Profile: VanessaGraceStory
VanessaGraceStory on Jun 16, 2017
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Just be straightforward with him & tell him. Relationships require lots of communication, if you do not communicate your feelings then or if he dont, you won't be able to know what's really going on. But do not assume or be judgemental towards him about your feelings. Take care
Profile: Fakhiha25
Fakhiha25 on Jun 29, 2017
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See a relationship means that you guys are friends as well and can talk about anything. He loves you and will understand
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Anonymous on Jul 14, 2017
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Although it's rather difficult to confront someone directly; for someone so involved in your life and someone you must love a lot, they deserve to know the truth that you feel unhappy. Both you and he deserve the truth - and considering the role that he plays in your life, he should care enough about you that he would want to know when you're not happy
Profile: FinleyTews
FinleyTews on Jul 15, 2017
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I'm sorry to hear about your unhappiness. Telling that to people may not be easy, but gentle and honesty help a long way. I think being direct and specific about your current problems will make solving them quicker. If the reason of your feeling low is certain people, use "I feel" sentences instead of saying how they make you feel to avoid hard feelings. If you already have some solutions, discussing them with him will be a good idea. Good luck :)
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