How do I stop feeling that there is something wrong with me, when they break up with me?

Well you should understand the possibility that the type of relationship you shared with the person, might have not been the type of relationship you should have shared. It's sort of like how you treat your friends. You go along with them, but that's because their a friend and not something more. Relationships don't work out sometimes and that could be due to so many other factors,and that's completely okay, even though it feels like it's not, because you did lose someone you shared your ife with, but your life is still yours, and there are a multitude of people that will be lucky to share it with you :) I hope that you'll feel better again, and know that this community is there for you

This feeling just don't go away. It takes time. Healing takes time. Sometimes, when you love someone, it becomes hard to see their faults and that's why you blame yourself. As the time passes, you see things clearly and notice that the person isn't as great as you thought they were. The healing process starts.You stop pitying youself. You start going out and start enjoying. You stop missing them. Before the healing process starts, you should assue yourself that nothing is wrong with you and it wasn't your fault no matter that you feel opposite of that and never go back to them.

Not every relationship is meant to be sometimes there are difference the likes and dislikes ..go for the one's that actually show interest in you first

Simply look at it differently. Before you met the person, you felt a certain way. It changed once you met the person. Once you lost the one you love, you wonder why sometimes. Usually, people tend to worry about if there was something that the partner didn't like about them and lose self-confidence. Try to accept that you're you and they're them!

Breaking up is a process that began somewhen and somewhere else. It has something to do with you, but this doesn't mean it is your fault. The best thing you can do now is not to go out and look for victims. This includes you. Instead, you can embrace your feelings and think of this challenge as a chance to improve yourself. Sometimes we fall down, sometimes we fall apart: this is a precious moment to analyze our little fragments that build our soul. There's nothing inside you that is not deserving pure love: remember this when you feel like it's your fault.