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How can I tell my boyfriend how I feel about him?

Profile: TwylyghtMyst
TwylyghtMyst on Jun 17, 2018
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Start by asking if I may speak with him for a moment then begin by saying I feel.. and explain how you feel with out being accusing or putting him on the defensive if it is about a problem. Or if it is because you like him then Start off the same way and tell him!
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Profile: courageousRose78
courageousRose78 on Jun 20, 2018
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Make sure you both are in a place where you conversation will be the current priority. If he is busy it may not be the best time. Also make sure that you are clear with your intentions.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 8, 2018
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This is a great question! It's important to let those that we care about know what's going on inside of our heads. With that said, it's best to just do what feels right for you. You know best what needs to be said, and how your boyfriend will take it.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 8, 2018
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Put yourself in his shoes. Think if you were him and your partner did not tell you how they felt how would you feel?
Profile: DanishPotato
DanishPotato on Jul 9, 2018
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The best way i've found is just grab a pen and paper and think about him and then just write down everything that comes to mind then try to write it into something readable and refine it a bit might takes a few times of rewriting but it always works for me to put it on paper :)
Profile: peacefulrose22
peacefulrose22 on Jul 11, 2018
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if you truly love your boyfriend you should be able to be honest always with him. i am with my boyfriend and we are happy !
Profile: Eleuthromaniac
Eleuthromaniac on Jul 13, 2018
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Open and honest communication is KEY to a healthy and sustainable relationship, at whatever age it is. If you find yourself stuck like this you should definitely try and sit him down, one-on-one and ask him to simply listen to you without speaking in, or you can even write a hand-made letter and hand it to him when he isn’t home, like in his mailbox or door step. Sometimes talking to your significant other about your feelings can be challenging but the rewards of it after it is said can be the best.
Profile: LovingPhantom
LovingPhantom on Jul 15, 2018
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Although it is difficult to be so vulnerable about your emotions, it can come out with good things. The first thing to acknowledge is that he may not feel exactly like you do. For example, you might tell him you love him and he might not be ready to do that. It's nothing personal against you, it's just people come to terms and gain those emotions at different times. And if you tell him how you feel, expect awkwardness. It's okay if it's odd. But it's open, it's vulnerable. You may feel dissuaded from their response, but it's recommended you ignore the possibility of a not so positive response and focus on the strength within you to be vulnerable. It is EXTREMELY hard to be vulnerable with another person, so good on you to do that. And how to do so? Just tell them. Call, text, do it in person, whatever is comfortable for you. But doing it in person would delivery the message more genuinely.
Profile: RumpleSteeleSkin
RumpleSteeleSkin on Jul 21, 2018
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You can make a special dinner, and after you both eat have a light hearted chat outside or in an area where it's quiet and no distractions. Maybe you can buy or make a card and share your thoughts that way. Hope these ideas can help you.
Profile: ParisHereToHelp
ParisHereToHelp on Jul 30, 2018
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Firstly identify the words to express how you feel about him, take time to think about the thoughts and emotions you have for him. Once you have gathered your ideas, ease into the conversation with related topics, such as how you have been feeling lately and how the relationship has been going in your eyes. Once you feel comfortable enough in the conversation, slowly start to let out all of your feelings and express to him your emotions.
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