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He said I was perfect for him, but he chose someone else?

Profile: Anaiviv01
Anaiviv01 on Jun 23, 2017
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Perfection is overestimated. People are scared of perfection. Perfection implies accountability and not everyone is ready to be fully responsible for someone else's happiness. It's quite sad, but also human. "You are perfect for me, but this is the wrong time", "you are perfect for me, but I'm not ready"... be perfect for yourself, be your first choice and be someone else's FIRST choice, even if you're not perfect.
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Profile: Leelove740
Leelove740 on Sep 7, 2017
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Sometimes people are indecisive about what they want. Sometimes they aren't truthful in their feelings. I've gone through this situation and realized that if they leave in that manner then they weren't meant to stay and you should let them leave.
Profile: amiableUnicorns89
amiableUnicorns89 on Nov 19, 2017
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I'm really sorry about that. People do things for different reasons which we may not know. But this does not mean that you are worthless in any way, or that you are not good enough. Respect his decisions, and dont let it weigh you down. Try your best to move on, and spend time doing things that make you happy. all the best!
Profile: NotAGod
NotAGod on Nov 22, 2017
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Then that literally means he wasn't perfect for you. That literally means you are worth more and deserve better.
Profile: Loveablebabygirl23
Loveablebabygirl23 on Dec 7, 2017
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Sounds like basically any guy who isn’t actually ready to hold an actual relationship, he likes the thought of having you around but not actually wanting to be together he’s in it for the sexual thrill
Profile: havartilikeits1999
havartilikeits1999 on Dec 8, 2017
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Sometimes people don't say what they are truly thinking, or they change their minds. It doesn't mean anything is wrong with you.
Profile: Pumpkin74
Pumpkin74 on Feb 28, 2018
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Heartbreaks are the worst but we can not control how others react to situations. Just remember that even the most beautiful and "perfect" women have been heartbroken at some point and this does not mean there is anything wrong with you. It also does not mean the right person will not come along. So, gather up your self-esteem and think about how he missed out on a great person!
Profile: highlyintuition1
highlyintuition1 on Apr 15, 2018
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Sometimes you have to not value or take to heart what others tell you. If you take to heart what spouses or anyone for that matter says to you, you will spend the majority of your life sad miserable etc. it’s trully his lost and if he doesn’t see it that way then that’s his problem not yours. He’s someone else problem now
Profile: Ree91
Ree91 on Jun 1, 2018
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Because at times people choice changes or at times they want to explore more and in that hunting process they lose someone important or someone worth holding of
Profile: Innerpeace2u
Innerpeace2u on Jun 13, 2018
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People says things they dont mean and do things they dont intend. Unless he is the realist, a man of his word, otherwise people make decision based on situation. Situation changes, people change.
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