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Do rebound relationships ever work?

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Anonymous on Apr 2, 2021
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Personally i dont think they do because majority of the time you are trying to fill that gap from someone else and you havent healed from that experience. You taking that hurt and empty feelings that a past relationship gave you and trying to offload it into a new one 'rebound'. Sometimes this can result in making you feeling even worse because you havent received that closure and sense of healing in the other relationship and you trying to seek it in someone else. First try and seek in within yourself before you enter a new relationship and ensure you are in a good mindset
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likeamelody114 on Apr 7, 2021
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There is a stigma created around the word rebound, connecting it to a negative connotation that someone is moving on too quickly to be an insert where there was once comfort by another. With that being said, rebound relationships can work out, but in my personal experience it has proved healthy for my mental and emotional well being to be able to heal before getting involved with another individual too quickly. It's not to say that there is a specified amount of time, however it helped me to focus on myself for at least a month to allow my wounds to heal and for me to focus on my needs and desires and loving myself in order for me to know what it is I want from another. Loving yourself and knowing what you want from someone allows for a healthier relationship.
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Anonymous on Apr 11, 2021
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Relationships are best when they are imbued with meaning. If you are simply thinking of something as a rebound it is belittling it to a point of utility in your life. After leaving an important relationship I think it is best to reflect on what has passed. Sometimes sitting with yourself and the feelings that surround the end of something is an important and vital aspect of growth. When we reflect on the past it gives us the opportunity to plan for the future in a meaningful way. When we rush into the next thing without properly processing we run the risk of not giving ourselves time to heal.
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Anonymous on Apr 18, 2021
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Of course! The concept of a rebound relationship is that you run out and fall for someone new right away without really getting to know them very well. Ending the last relationship caused emotional need in you so you were so desperate, you jumped into a new one without looking where you were going. There could be other reasons to jump into a new relationship quickly besides leaving an old one. There could be some other changes in your life, graduating from college, moving to a new area, getting a promotion and a big bump in income, retiring and having a lot more free time, taking on a new attitude in life. When you jump into a new relationship quickly without really taking the time to get to know them, there is going to be an increased chance that the person isn't really right for you.
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Anonymous on Jun 3, 2021
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It really depends on each individual and their circumstances. Usually rebound relationships don't work out well because there are still some strong feelings towards a previous partner. Some relationships end emotionally long before they end officially. One person may still be feeling love for their ex, whilst some may be genuinely ready to move on and start a fresh. Either way, it's always best to be open and honest about what you are seeking from potential future partners. Some rebound relationships can work and actually help in healing previous relationship wounds. Some, however, will probably need more time to process a previous break-up. They may feel lonely and be looking for a new intimate partner to fill the space their ex left behind.
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Anonymous on Jun 24, 2021
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Sometimes they can work if they’re putting the effort into the relationship. And there are certain standards for if and why they do work. If they put in effort. If they really like eachother and if they liked eachother during the past relationship. But they have to have all of these three in order to work together. Sometimes yes they can work but it isn’t typically likely but if you’re putting effort into any relationship they should work it doesn’t matter if they’re rebound relationships or if they are not rebound relationships. Every single one needs work and effort.
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Anonymous on Jul 25, 2021
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It really depends on the circumstances of the new relationship. It's not necessarily true that every rebound relationship would fail. If the intention of a hurting person is to move on and distract oneself from the breakup then it may not be healthy. Each person may require a different amount of time to process their break up. For some this may take days or weeks, others may take months or years. It depends on the length and seriousness of the previous relationship too. Often a rebound relationship may not work-out but it really depends on the intentions and nature of both people in the rebound relationship.
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Berry1234 on Sep 26, 2021
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Rebound relationships often don't work because you're trying to fill the void you feel from your past relationship by being with another person though you still may be emotionally attached to the previous person. Taking the time to be alone to reflect on your previous relationship is important before entering another relationship because it ensures you are in the new relationship for the right reasons, not just because you want to feel the way you did with the person you were with prior and you're trying to get over the way you felt. Therefore, rebound relationships often don't work because you tend to make rash decisions when you're emotional and have just come out of a relationship with someone, so entering a relationship with someone else, that is, a rebound relationship, is likely not to work.
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Anonymous on Nov 21, 2021
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Never is a big word, but in general, rebound relationships do not work out long term. A rebound relationship stems from the loss of a relationship, and a need for temporary emotional and sexual attention. This attention is often times used to make the individual feel better temporarily, as well as to produce feelings of jealousy in the ex. If the goal of a relationship is to produce jealousy, and a relationship is rushed in order to have a rebound, then it is not a stable and genuine connection. Rebounds are simply temporary placeholders for avoiding working through the pain or trauma of grieving the loss of a relationship. These relationships are often not equal in emotional investment, and rarely work out in the end.
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Anonymous on Dec 2, 2021
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Breakups can bring in sense of hopelessness, anxiety, low self esteem and sadness. Taking time for oneself before moving into relationships is often viewed as the right way however some people seek comfort in another romantic partner as a way to speed up the process of healing. Approaching a rebound relationship with caution is always good, it has it's own pros and cons. The pros would be - boosted self confidence, hope for future, help in healing. The cons could be looking for diversion, distraction, ignoring the unresolved conflict, getting into a loop of toxic relationships in search of familiarity. Rebounds can be fun and therapeutic in balance and possibly window to next stable romantic relationship.
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