Do rebound relationships ever work?

Oh boy, do I wish someone had given me the opportunity to ask that question when it was time to... Answer's yes, I do. Because I've been there and it's not easy having to go through that alone. The World's a big place. Too big for someone to wonder on how to treat another person's feelings. To be honest, in the end, that is what this is about. It's not just about the one person asking the question but also about those affected by it. What has brought the situation to come about and how is it going to affect the parties? That's the real question.

Do you mean work for rebounding or work to stay together? In any case the answer is the same. As long as people find in each others something they value and that they are in tte state of mind to be with someone, it is most likely to be an enjoyable relationship. Then also what does “work” mean in that case? I’m assuming that it means that it is nice and last for a while, enough to eventually become a couple. Overall, there is no specific pattern... every story is different. I have examples in my entourage of couples who could have been qualified as rebound at first and ended up lasting and being great. It’s best not to think of the concept of “rebound” if things are simply going well... just letting us flow is the best.

They could if you stop seeing it as a rebound relationship at some point. Relationships are dynamic things. Also, you have to be good by yourself first fam. Self love is key. You need to have a reservoir to pull from. Explore new things but do it with caution and dont do it to fill a void.

It seems unreasonable to suggest that rebound relationships could not work as well as any other. Although perhaps it is simply the probability of success that might decrease when a relationship is rushed into for the wrong reasons. During a rebound, a person misses out on the healing process that brings growth and insight after a breakup. It seems possible that one might fortunately stumble upon their ideal partner immediately after a breakup, but even then it might clarify their decision and benefit the new relationship to have better closure about the one before it.

It depends on the intent. You say "rebound," which to me means jumping into a relationship immediately after one ends in an effort to continue being with someone no matter who they are. In that case, it is not healthy, nor "working" for either person. Relationships should not be based upon an inherit need to be loved by someone; almost everyone has that desire but it is not an excuse to use others for short term comfort. If you are currently in a "rebound relationship," I would suggest you think deeply about how this relationships began and your inner insecurities that may have led to a relationship started off of fear.

According to my mind, they can work. If there is too much hurt left from the first period of the relationship, things can be difficult but not impossible. One has to be strong to work through everything that has happened. However, if it wasn't the right time the first time, maybe it is now. Maybe the people in the relationship have grown and things can be even better. Often, a pause for personal growth is needed so the relationship can consist out of two individuals who have their own personality and have grown enough to then grow together again. I think that it is very important to question your own intentions and feelings. If the relationship had been toxic the first time, independence from this difficult relationship might be the better option.

It depends. Many rebound relationships don't work out because of the force of "feelings" for the person. Sometimes, if it's with someone you could actually be right with, maybe developing feelings for them can happen. It is all different for everyone. Males find it easier than females because females sometimes take their time to process and actually move on. Once again it is still different for everyone. No one is the same. If you're in a rebound relationship, be aware of their emotions and yours. That is all I have to say now. I hope that was a helpful answer.

That completely depends on the person(s) involved. It also depends on how long you were with the previous person and how soon after you go into a new relationship. If you had true genuine love for the previous person it would be difficult to forget that love very quickly, which means the you are not putting in 100 percent to the new relationship. Generally people who jump right into something new are simply looking to overcome the pain from the last one. They want a distraction, they feel lonely, they are desperate for something to hold on too again. It's normal, and understandable. That doesn't mean the the "rebound relationship" can't work, it just simply depends on the reason you are with that person.

Rebound relationships can work however studies show that only 35% has actually succeeded leaving a large percentage of 65% failing in the first 6 months. This happens because the new partner the rebound is only filling in the gap left from the last relationship. Breaking up with a woman you truly love can be one of the toughest experiences to go through in life. In a serious relationship, you will usually invest a lot of your time, energy and emotions trying to make it work. Eventually, much of your life may revolve around her and big decisions that you used to make on your own when you were single, are now often made with her buy-in or with her interests in mind. No matter what happened during the relationship, no matter how “good” or “bad” you were together and no matter what caused the breakup; when it is all over, you are usually left feeling battered and bruised.

I had this boyfriend I adored to pieces, I felt as he possibly felt the same way but eventually things came to an end and we our separate ways. I decided that maybe I could just move on and find someone else, what I missed was before I got into a relationship, I need to be in one myself. Rebound relationships can feel like you're not alone anymore but you never were! I don't particularly think a rebound relationship could work if you're not yet already healed from your previous relationship. Take time on self-love, you're worth it :)