Why do I always fail even when I try my hardest?
Anonymous
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Jul 16, 2018
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I promise you, you don’t. This is something that is all in your head. Your a smart, amazing human who many people can’t live without.
CaringFriendly
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Jul 22, 2018
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I feel that my personal experience regarding failure is that it is when I've failed and failed again and feel as though failure is all I'm able to achieve that I truly learn in that moment that failure is a life lesson for us to grow personally. Each time I fail I learn about that experience and learn new ways of overcoming it so that next time I'm better equipped with how to deal with it, even if I fail again, there is no failure in trying. Sometimes failing can teach us a lot about ourselves, I try to view it that failure is necessary to grow
Dlinepop
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Jul 25, 2018
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Always believe in yourself. Keep motivating yourself everyday in order to achieve it. Don't let anything negative get through your mind.
Anonymous
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Jul 26, 2018
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Because falling is a part of life and learning experiences. They always happen no matter how hard you try since you cannot definitely control the outcome.
Diya83
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Jul 26, 2018
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Maybe you lack motivation so even when you’re trying you know that you don’t need want to do it, or it’s just not something you’re good at. Some people aren’t good at writing at all but are amazing at woodwork or product design. You just need to find things that you are good at
Anonymous
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Jul 27, 2018
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i honor your feelings- all feelings are valid. i know i feel that way sometimes so i empathize.
But no-one can fail all the time! Just like no-one can succeed all the time...
When i feel this way, i try to:
- think about or write list of all the things that i did well today- it can be as small as making it out of bed to trying your hardest today even though you might feel like aren't a success.
-i find that i minimize the things that i did well and focus on the things that i feel i "failed." But what is a failure if not a learning experience. i know that sounds cliche- but when you have failure-tinted glasses on then one only sees failure.... and that is simply not true!
Another thing that may help is making your goals more realistic, taking smaller steps, or taking a break when over-whelmed by thoughts of failure.
Just the fact that you reached out and asked this question makes you a success my friend. Be kind to yourself. You are precious.
#biglove
RumpleSteeleSkin
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Jul 28, 2018
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I am not sure why you try very hard in life, but yet "fall" or things happen. Sometimes it's just things we do and don't see it. Or the people we hand around with. Our choices maybe. It is very different for everyone on this. I like to share, continue doing your best in life, chin up! Also forgive yourself when you fall as you brush yourself off and start again
TheCreative1One
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Jul 29, 2018
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Every single day, you are a human, and just like many people you make mistakes. But you also make victories, few, or small, they are important to recognize. Reminding yourself of the small good deeds you do will help you move forward, to make you a more optamistic person! Rememeber to reward yourself for making the right decision, that will encourage you to do it again! Keep moving forward, and dont give up. I believe in you!
Anonymous
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Aug 2, 2018
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When you start a project or anything you put your all but at the same time you believe you will fail which in return makes you criticise everything that you do which brings failure.
serpentsxspell
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Aug 2, 2018
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We all view ourselves through judging eyes, for we are our on worst critics. If you could steal a snapshot of yourself through someone else's eyes, you might be surprised by how successful you really are.
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