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Should I tell my husband I cheated on him?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 3, 2016
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Honesty is the best policy and if you feel comfortable telling him about it then go for it just be prepared for everything and anything
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Anonymous on Mar 4, 2016
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That's a very unique question. I personally think secrecy isn't good in a relationship, but you know your husband much better than I do.
Profile: scarlettdream
scarlettdream on Mar 4, 2016
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Yes yes, you should! If you did a bad thing, admit it, admit your mistakes , please explain him, apologize him
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Anonymous on Mar 5, 2016
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depends upon if you really want to save your marriage and then just try to calmly and carefully tell everything and be honesr
Profile: Llanah
Llanah on Mar 6, 2016
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I think it is important that you are honest. I found out I had been cheated on after a long-term relationship, and one of the women was my friend. There were multiple affairs and it was kept a secret from me for years. It really messed me up bad for a long time, I thought I was worthless and I couldn't live up to what these women had. I couldn't fathom what they had and what I didn't. The part that bothered me the most though, was that he didn't tell me. He let the situation get worse and worse, until there was no fixing US anymore. Too many scars came out of the situation, and a lot of people were hurt. It's important to be honest with your partner.
Profile: HereForYou001
HereForYou001 on Mar 6, 2016
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Yes. He deserves to know. Infidelity is a sin. And I not talking in biblical sense. I am not even catholic. Sin in a sense of your marriage. You played with his trust.
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Anonymous on Mar 6, 2016
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Its always better for you to tell him before he finds out or else the consequences would be terrible. If you regret your actions and if he is willing to be by your side on matter what then it would be great! You get to understand your husband better from his reaction to this
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Anonymous on Mar 6, 2016
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Yes, you should tell the truth, apologize, and divorce; cheating on somebody is wrong and be honest.
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Anonymous on Mar 9, 2016
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Yes, honesty is the best policy-- as cheesy as that sounds. He will respect you for your honesty and willingness to mend the relationship.
Profile: Keola
Keola on Mar 10, 2016
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I totally believe that you should tell your husband that you have cheated on him. He needs to know what lead you to doing this act. If he is forgiving maybe you both can seek counseling and improve your communication lines between each other. I am not one to judge but I do believe that if one cheats on their partner, there is something missing in that relationship that requires the both of you to talk about and to come up with solutions together.
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