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Is it normal to feel more anxious when you're alone?

Profile: wonderfulUnicorns
wonderfulUnicorns on Aug 2, 2020
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It is normal to be more anxious when you're alone because you will have the tendency of fear of the uncertainty. A lot of things can trigger anxiety attacks. When you're alone, you may start to think about upcoming exams or presentation which has been playing in your mind. Or you might be worried about your own health condition or someone else's. You did not invite all this thoughts but it is in your unconscious and they appear you're by yourself. That's when anxiety attacks can happen and you may experience shortness of breath or palpitation, which can be very daunting when you're alone.
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 6, 2020
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yes as you have no one to resure you the best advice i can give is if you alone at home call a friend or even chat to them your never alone you will allways have some to chat to and if your felling anxious count from ten or do something what makes you happy and have little rewards for what you did and if your still anxious message a listener we will be happy to help and talk to you when ever you need us even when you think you might not just drop a text you will not regret it
Profile: peaceandlovesun
peaceandlovesun on Aug 8, 2020
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It is normal to feel anxious when you are alone. As humans, we are social beings. We belong in packs interacting with one another and protecting each other. This being said, it is pretty normal to feel more or less "threatened" when alone. When you are alone, you might think too much- more than you would if you were with others. You will think too much and too deeply about something because your brain is trying to occupy itself since it cannot talk out loud and have a meaningful conversation with anyone. This can lead to anxiety. However, it is essential to spend plenty of time with yourself too. It is important to find a healthy balance between alone time and time around others.
Profile: happylittlenote
happylittlenote on Aug 14, 2020
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i think so. usually when i'm all alone it's easier for my mind to wander everywhere especially to the negative memories or thoughts. it's important to focus in the present or to any positive things. the company of a right person is playing a big role for me. but if you want to spend your time alone but afraid to get bothered by the anxiety, usually what i did was make myself as my own companion. i usually talk to myself about anything that's bothering me. and that actually works, just as long as you are honest about everything.
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Anonymous on Aug 30, 2020
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Everyone is different, and we all experience different feelings for different reasons. Whatever your feelings or reasons are, they are valid. There are people who are going through things similar to what you're going through. I don't know if normal is the right word, but you make sense. Ask yourself why being alone makes you anxious, try to understand yourself. There are reasons for your feelings and they are valid. Like I said, you, your feelings, and your reasons make sense. It's ok to feel whatever you feel. You are loved and you are enough. Best of luck to you!
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Anonymous on Sep 20, 2020
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Yes, it is normal to feel anxious when you are alone. If you are alone and you know you should be you could get anxious that someone may be with you that isn't suppose to be. You could also get anxious at a noise you are not use to. Some people may get anxious if someone left then to go do something because you may be worried they won't come back or they got hurt. If you are out in public but not with anyone you could get anxious because your afraid something may happen with a stranger and you. So yes it is normal to feel more anxious when you're alone.
Profile: caringBerry61
caringBerry61 on Oct 4, 2020
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First and foremost you should ask yourself if you really know the meaning of anxiety in order to avoid exchanging it for another type of mental state. From your question, it appears as you are "always" anxious. In fact, you typed: "Is it normal to feel "more" anxious when you're alone?" which leads me to assume that when you are NOT alone you are "less" anxious so you always feel anxious. Let's try to investigate what you call anxiety. "According to the British NHS, Anxiety is the main symptom of several conditions, including: - panic disorder - phobias, such as agoraphobia or claustrophobia - post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) - social anxiety disorder (social phobia) Anxiety is a feeling of unease, such as worry or fear, that can be mild or severe. Everyone has feelings of anxiety at some point in their life. For example, you may feel worried and anxious about sitting an exam or having a medical test or job interview. During times like these, feeling anxious can be perfectly normal. But some people find it hard to control their worries. Their feelings of anxiety are more constant and can often affect their daily lives." Have you ever tried to ask yourself why do you feel that way? What happened recently or a few minutes earlier that made you react with anxiety to an event or just because you spoke with someone? My opinion is that "this exists because that exists" which means that everything has a cause. So I would urge you to start investigating your thoughts, the events in your day life, the people you interact with, and all the situations of life you encounter. What do you do when you are alone? What would you like to do but you cannot do when you care alone? Are you really alone in a room or there are other people around that add their behaviours you dislike? Are you really present to your senses when you are alone or would you like to be somewhere else? May you be happy and healthy.
Profile: skylarpilot47
skylarpilot47 on Oct 7, 2020
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In my experience, it all depends! Sometimes introversion or social anxiety can make you more susceptible to anxiety around others. But if you are feeling more anxious alone, your thoughts are the only thing keeping you company, and they are probably negative thoughts. When we are not 'distracted', so to speak, by people and events around us, our thoughts are the only thing we are focused on. Being alone and constantly thinking, or over-thinking, we are more likely to produce anxious thoughts and they can become overwhelming very quickly. Staying in isolation too long can definitely increase this anxiety, and it is completely normal in this sense!
Profile: Abbyhelpspeople
Abbyhelpspeople on Oct 24, 2020
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In some cases yes, if you struggle with anxiety already, it is sometimes easy to get caught up in anxious moments. Being anxious is a very normal involuntary act. But we need to see why, and what is causing this for you. As everyone does experience this, there are reasons why you shouldn’t be. Is stress from work bothering you? Or give a few examples of something’s that are bothering you to think about. Let’s start at the root of the problem and see if I can listen and help where you need me to be at. I want to help.
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beautifulFlower8404 on Oct 31, 2020
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I am definitely more Anxious when alone. I think it is because I have a history of trauma. But in all actuality I think most people dont lie beinng alone as people prefer to be social and do things and be with Friends, Family and Work Colleagues. Isolating in general is bad for me, I find my thoughts end up being too scattered and racing way too much. I like my alone time, but there is just some times where I prefer to be in the Company of others. I go to visit a friend or go out to eat with friends. I also have some neighbors I talk to.
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