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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 16, 2022
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If you think it is the right thing, then it is the right thing at the moment. Even if you regret it in the future, just remember that for your situation and circumstances now, that decision you have made was one that suited your situation then. The concept of right and wrong is relevant so if you think it is right, then it is right. But of course, in the future, think carefully about any major decisions that you may make, in order not to question yourself like you are now. And do not let anyone make you feel bad or regret any decision that you have already made because they do not know what you were going through at the time of the decision making.
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Profile: ZoodleDoodle
ZoodleDoodle on Jul 13, 2016
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An interesting question because the answer can really change depending on the situation. I suppose most of the time you have to consult your own beliefs, morals, and opinions, and see if they match up to your actions. What I do is ask myself what I would think if my friend told me something they had done. What would I say if I wasn't invested in this situation?
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 17, 2016
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Sometime you never do! And sometimes you'll feel you did the wrong thin even when it was the right thing. Just know that decision is in the past now xxx
Profile: HelpWisely
HelpWisely on Jul 31, 2016
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Simple, be aware of how you feel. If you feel happy, content, pleased then it is the indication for you that you did the right thing.
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Anonymous on Aug 2, 2016
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When you are happy and feel contented, you did the right thing. Don't doubt yourself about what you can do.
Profile: SilentSerenityy
SilentSerenityy on Aug 11, 2016
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If you felt it was right in your heart and you followed your instincts when doing it. It may be right for you but not for someone else, but that's how life goes sometimes.
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Anonymous on May 17, 2018
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Stuff can be hard to tell if you did the right thing. Let’s say you were worried about a friend that you think self harms, and you told the school counselor. You did the best thing for them. They might not see it like that yet, but you just have to give it time. You stopped the issue before it got out of hand, before something worst could of happened. You helped them get their life back on track, you are their life savor.
Profile: SelfCareSally
SelfCareSally on Aug 15, 2018
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It's always the right thing to be present and listen. There's so many people who don't have that support - let just being there for them be enough :)
Profile: DipityEnigma
DipityEnigma on Sep 1, 2018
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This question is pretty vague but I'll try to help you with this as much as possible. Depending upon the situation, you will feel uncertainty such as this but if you truly feel as though you've done the wrong thing, then perhaps it would help to write out the pro's and con's of what you've done or said. Write down what the outcome of the situation is or could result in from what you've done/said. Write out what you could have done/said instead. Now, look at what you've written and decide whether or not you think you done the right thing or whether you could have handled the situation differently for a more positive outcome. Hope this helps.
Profile: JK8287
JK8287 on Sep 28, 2018
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You don't have to worry so much always if you did the right thing. We're on earth to learn, so making small mistakes is okay. As long as your intention and heart is pure, there's really no such thing as a mistake (it comes when you "miss taking" a lesson -- true mistakes). Another thing that may help you is to know the distinction between guilt and a pinch. When you've really done something wrong, you'll feel it in your body. It will make you wretch almost, you'll feel so bad. And that type of pinch is always about the result of an action, whereas guilt is this nagging thing, like being in this nether zone where you can never relax. I would say feel your pinches deeply, but drop your guilt totally. You are made of love.
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