How can I explain my anxiety to my partner?
Lorelei333
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Dec 22, 2014
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I'm sure that your partner already knows. But, it may help if you describe to him/her the reasons for your anxiety, as in what your triggers are and why you feel certain situations make you feel uncomfortable so that they can recognize when there is a situation that will likely spark a negative reaction and support you in it. If they love you then they will understand. They wouldn't want you to feel anything less than comfortable.
Anonymous
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Dec 30, 2014
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Be honest. It is important to maintain communication in a relationship, particularly one where one partner has anxious tendencies. Being open about this can be important to help your partner understand who you are and how you function. But take things slowly. Expecting them to understand fully and completely right away may be a bit much.
Anonymous
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Jan 5, 2015
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Tell him/her what happens in you head. Tell him/her each little step that takes place - if you can. If you feel very anxious at a certain point, try to write down what happens so you can tell him/her what goes on in your mind. Then, try to tell him/her what kind of support you would like/expect, that's one of the most important things. Good luck :)
Anonymous
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Jun 30, 2015
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It may help to explain that anxiety is a disease-- no different in seriousness than any other. While some people are afflicted with conditions of the heart or lung, others are afflicted with conditions of the brain. Having anxiety doesn't mean that you're "crazy," only that you're suffering from something outside your control. Anxiety is tough to deal with, which is why it's important that your partner learn to stand beside and support you as you struggle through it.
lecorpsecake
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Oct 26, 2015
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You go by pieces, don't wanna throw all of your fears and issues on them. Just start by relating an issue with an activity you guys are doing or on a talk some time... I'm pretty sure that if it is a nice person, he or she will understand.
FoxInTheBox
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Dec 21, 2015
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Don't hesitate. Since they are your partner, I would assume the two of you have a level of closeness and mutual understanding with one another. Just calmly describe the whole situation to them, and how it's bothering you. I'm sure he/she can provide you with a lot of much-needed support and guidance.
phantahna
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Apr 12, 2016
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Anxiety disorders are a category of mental illness disorders, characterized by feelings of anxiety and fear, where anxiety is a worry about future events and fear is a reaction to current events. These feelings can cause to social anxiety (which includes not wanting to go out and be social because of the fear of what irrational idea might happen etc.)
emily12200
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Jun 28, 2016
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If they really love you, they will understand you no matter how you tell them. But, you can start by bringing up the subject or possibly talking to a proffecional.
StayPositiveFriend
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Sep 12, 2016
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Anxiety is an incredibly difficult thing to live with and very difficult to explain to people who have never felt that way. Some people react as if you are just exaggerating and cant understand why you are being so dramatic. But this is your partner, you are together, they care for you and want you to be happy so you should not expect a negative reaction from them. Talk to them and ask them if they have ever been in a situation where they felt scared of something. Perhaps when they were little for example. Use that to build your explanation on and engage them on an emotional level. Their memories of such feelings can be used as context for how you feel about certain situations.
Anonymous
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Oct 11, 2016
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You can sit with your partner and explain to them what you are going through and then provide him/her with some web articles about anxiety so that he/she can better understand!
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