Should I tell my partner or friend I am a recovering addict?
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Updated: Sep 7, 2021
bouncyMist58
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Nov 14, 2014
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I think you should be open with your partner and friends about it....otherwise they may tempt you and not even mean to.
Lucipurroxie
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Dec 24, 2014
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I think being honest in any relationship is the most core building block to having a trusting relationship. Secrets can hardly stay secret for long.
joyfulForest37
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Dec 24, 2014
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this is totally your own choice.. but.. If your partner is your soul mate etc it may be they can give vital support to you if you need it , I know first hand that it was probably the best this thing i did though that is just me. Trusting somebody is very much a vital part of recovering and can help you trust yourself in making descisions later in life down the road
Anonymous
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Apr 16, 2015
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Yes you should always let someone know whom you are involved with you are a recovering addict. They need to know so they don't put you in situations that you could be triggers for you. That's being responsible for you own sobriety and staying accountable.
TheFilipinoHeart
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Aug 10, 2015
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Of course. You don't want to hide something very important to those guys right? I mean, you trust them and it's part of your relationship that no secrets are to be made.
Yahaans
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Oct 26, 2015
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Well usually it might be best to. Keeping a secret like that with your friend or partner might lead to a bigger problem later on. It might depend on your certain situation, but it seems for the most part, it is more risky to hide that your a recovering addict then to just tell them. It really does depend on your friend or partner too. In most cases they might find it ok. But I guess people can be difficult, different, and unpredictable, so you might have to be the judge of that. But overall, I think it's much better to tell them because it can create trust issues if you don't.
Anonymous
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Nov 3, 2015
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Yes! If you trust these people I feel it's best to talk about it so they can help you with your recovery, or at the very least, not put you in any kinda of situation where you may relapse.
Wishish
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Feb 16, 2016
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Absolutely,Honest is the best way to handle this. Giving someone the knowledge that they deserve, so they can make the decision,if they would like to continue the relationship.
StayStrongNeverLoseHope
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Mar 28, 2016
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You can tell whoever you like if you feel up for it, No one needs to know your business unless you think that person deserves to know.
UntilThen
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Aug 8, 2017
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If you would like them to help you with your feelings or you would like to open up then yes of course you should. But also know that you have no obligation to talk about it and if you don't want to share you don't have to.
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