I've been sexually assaulted. What should I do?
Anonymous
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Jul 28, 2015
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First, I would encourage you to take some deep breaths, tell yourself it's not your fault, and evaluate your current needs. Are you physically injured? If so, I would encourage you to go to the hospital. If you are not, I would encourage you to call a support person....whether that is a family member, a friend, or a sexual assault hotline. You can also go to a hospital even if you are not physically hurt--they can provide support for you there and you may speak with the police IF YOU WANT. Above all, keep working on breathing and reminding yourself that it is not your fault.
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Pandette
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Nov 18, 2014
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First of all, I'd like to say how sorry I am that someone could do that to you. I know how it feels and it really does hurt someone, to their core. In my situation, I never told anyone, but that made it much worse because it happened on numerous occasions, which inevitably built up to depression. In all honesty, it is your decision as to what you want to do. Just keep your head up high darling, the days do get better. Sending lots of love and hugs your way!

poeticjewel95
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Nov 6, 2014
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Based on my experience, If it is still affecting you in a very bad way, then I would say to go see someone, a counselor, a therapist, someone like that to get it out of your system and to be able to get through it in a healthy way.

Aayla
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Aug 28, 2024
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Remember that whatever you're feeling is a normal reaction, but what happened does not have to define your future. I know looking for support is hard and you may not feel ready yet, but please consider this. Be it from a trusted loved one or a more professional help, you can start processing what happened and figure out how to deal with your trauma. You're not alone, there are support nets and resources for assault survivors that can help you through it. If the person who did this to you is still in your life, make sure to prioritize your safety and limit the contacts or cut them off completely if possible.

Carlym529
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Oct 8, 2014
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Call a sexual assaulted hotline and talk to someone about what happened. Don't keep it to yourself, seek help

HerforU2580
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Oct 23, 2014
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Sexual assault needs to reported right away so that the perpetrator can be caught and justice brought

SpasticQueen
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Oct 23, 2014
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The first thing you should do is go to the police. It can be embarrassing and you may not want people to find out, but going to the police gets the rapist off the streets, and away from other victims.

Hasfast
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Oct 24, 2014
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You were the victim of a crime and should resort to the authorities to file a formal statement. Do not proceed against the person directly. It would also be good for you to talk this over with at least one member of your family and/or a close friend to find support. The option of therapy is never too extreme

jia97
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Oct 25, 2014
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tell the police,give them the details if it is easy for you,or talk to a therapist to lighten up that burden on your chest

Russell
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Nov 5, 2014
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Assault is a brutal, violent word; the truth can be subtle, and insidious. You must be honest with yourself, and others. The truth means more than what anybody thinks.

Brettlstar
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Nov 10, 2014
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Try to contact emergency services as soon as possible. If there were any witnesses make sure you know who they are. If it happened in your home, do not touch anything as police forensics will take prints etc. you will need to attend the emergency department and they use what is called a sexual assault kit on you to take samples, photograph your injuries and give you any medication required. Then you will be offered counselling and this is perhaps the most important part. Counselling helps you process what has happened and not let it turn into a post traumatic stress syndrome. Never forgo the counselling or trivialise the event as it will come back and haunt you for ever.
Anonymous
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Nov 15, 2014
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I understand that you may be feeling scared or angry or threatened. My first suggestion is to tell someone you trust very much. It doesn't have to be a parent. A friend, a guidance counselor, I've even gone to my minister before :) again, if your comfortable, perhaps you should contact the police. They will be able to help with overcoming trauma as well as ensuring your assaulter is caught.
Anonymous
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Nov 15, 2014
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You should reach out to someone whom you can trust. You should also see a doctor and get examined for any possible STIs, or other things. And most importantly remember that it was not your fault, and you are not alone.
Anonymous
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Nov 15, 2014
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If you have been sexually assaulted I would recommend that the person talk to someone they trust or a Professional and disclose what happened. Additionally, to get checked out by a Physician for STIs and any other health related concerns as a result of the assault. Ideally, contacting the authorities would the best yet every person has to decide if they want to do this and if it's in their best interest.
Anonymous
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Nov 17, 2014
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Don't ignore your problem. Talk to your friends and family. Maybe even a doctor. You're not alone in this.

Shaun123
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Nov 19, 2014
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I believe the best thing to do will be to contact someone you can trust e.g. your parents, and then the police for support, Possibly speak to your doctor :) feel free to chat whenever you want
Anonymous
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Nov 20, 2014
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Go to therapy or a group counseling session to relate your experience and subsequent anxiety with others who have been in similar situations.

1997Turtle
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May 2, 2015
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tell the police, or someone near you that could help. if you are upset about it, or scared about it, probably find someone to talk to too.

goldenPumpkin55
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Jun 23, 2015
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Report it immediately! These things needs to be out, don't feel ashamed it's not your fault! Whoever did this belong behind bars and have his dick cut off as a punishment!

BubblyDoll
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Jun 29, 2015
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You should contact the cops or a hotline about it. See a professional, it is a very serious issue and you need help resolving it. Good luck.
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