When depressed, why do the smallest of things sometimes just send you into this downward spiral that won't stop?
Listeningwolf1123
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Feb 1, 2015
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Because the smallest things never feel like the smallest things. When you suffer from depression, things like getting of bed, eating three meals a day, and remembering to take your pills are major victories, so when you suddenly burn your toast or give the wrong answer in class, it feels like a huge failure. You make all this progress and then you mess up on something you want to perceive as "small" but that small thing really bothers you.
Struggling with depression?
FindTheBeauty
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Feb 8, 2016
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Sometimes when we are strong for too long our "cup" gets a little too full. So that one little drop over flows our cup and we tend to breakdown. When we already down, that one little drop can affect us a bit worse.
WalledGarden98
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Feb 17, 2015
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It feels like absolutely nothing is going your way, because sometimes you expect big things to have a variety of outcomes, but you seek comfort in routine things that rarely go wrong. When these routine things go wrong, it can feel like every possible thing is going negatively.
Anonymous
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Jun 17, 2015
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Sometimes, little to nothing can feel like a lot when you don't know exactly what we're feeling. The littlest things can trigger something so large and it's hard to explain why. It's just when we feel sad or numb, our body wants us to feel more so the triggers can make us start to feel something even if it's just more sadness.
Anonymous
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Nov 17, 2015
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Depression causes an imbalance in your serotonin levels, serotonin acts as a mood stabilizer. Therefore if even the slightest thing triggers your symptoms of depression or sadness it can seem more extreme than it actually is. This however is normal when suffering from depression and nothing to be ashamed off.
DipityEnigma
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Apr 16, 2015
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Depression is often when you feel like life is getting to you so much that you just can't help but feel like everything is going to make your life worse. You made a spelling error, you must be stupid. You accidentally set the oven 10 degrees too low, you must be an idiot. All the little things in life make you feel bad because you already feel bad and have the mentality that everything that seems normal to most, is the worst thing ever when in reality, it's not. Life is full of challenges but always remember that you're in control of you. Don't let depression take you down. Shrug it off and move on. Force yourself to realise how insignificant it really is by rationalising it anyway you want. Take control of your depression, don't let your depression take control of you.
Anonymous
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Aug 31, 2015
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Because depression makes me incredibly sensitive and self-critic, and then I tend to perceive information in the most negative way possible - and believe in it.
Anonymous
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Jul 18, 2016
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Depression likes to suck everything it can out of you, if it can find one little thing to overthink, it will. Then another... then another... Spirals suck. Just remember that when you tell yourself you're worthless, or that you don't matter, or you're not good enough, it's not true. Keep moving forward, you're a good person and you matter.
moitrois713
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Oct 3, 2016
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When you're depressed, you feel things at higher intensities, you can detect a slight change in the weather like a friend died. Small things affect you extra. You're thinking a lot more in general and a single event might trigger you to just start listing out everything wrong, whether it has an immediate consequence or not.
Try writing out every single thing that's worrying you and then categorize them into 3: work on now, not important right now, and maybe worry later.
It might help you think more clearly.
Anonymous
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Feb 1, 2016
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When you feel depressed, mostly everything is seen negatively and can break you down. I'm sorry about the depression you're feeling.
Anonymous
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Aug 18, 2015
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Because when you're sad it's easy to get even sadder. In those situations you need to give yourself some piece and rest.
alovingdoginspace
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Jan 31, 2017
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Often times, when you've been struggling with problems for a long time, the smallest thing can set you off. And that's common! It's nothing to feel ashamed about. You've been battling your own wars for a long time, and sometimes, having to fight another war can be so crippling and frustrating. You're your own warrior; strong, and brave. It's okay to break sometimes, just as long as you get right back up! :)
pandateddy
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Apr 4, 2016
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When one is depressed, they are stuck with a negative mindset. When one is experiencing those negative emotions, the smallest things will make it worse or trigger a wave of negative feelings that will not stop.
Anonymous
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Apr 29, 2015
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Because when one is in a depressive state, there is a tendency to focus on the negativity of everything around them self and blame it all on themselves. With that, it makes a person more depressed and the cycle goes on and on.
SecondChance29
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Sep 1, 2015
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I think that when I´m in a really depressed time , I´m forcing myself to be strong and collet all the "water drops", but it comes a time when I´m really full and can´t take any other drop, so there I made a flood, and all the problems, and tears came real.
Anonymous
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Jun 5, 2015
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Depression is a very difficult thing- Sometimes you are absolutely fine, other time you feel a bit low, other times you feel extremely low- And anything can sometimes set you off- sometimes, when you are upset or worrying about something, your mind is sensitive, and your sensitive and when the smallest thing happens, using the quote from your text, you end up going into this downward spiral that wont stop. Depression is a very difficult thing, might be a good idea to speak to your local GP or doctor for support and help on what to do. And hopefully you have your friends and family you can speak to about your situation :) And you know- Here at 7cupsoftea, we are always here for you.
Anonymous
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Oct 24, 2016
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Depression makes your mind work against yourself so the smallest things become very big, real mountains to climb. It's not your fault your finding things difficult, it's not you, it's your illness. Remember that.
fruityflamingo
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Nov 9, 2015
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It's hard when you are depressed because the little things can combine and send you into a downward spiral that feels out of control. From my experience I've found that the little things - such as spilling a glass of water or not getting up in time- trigger the underlying feeling/experience of depression. Over time I've found that being mindful and acknowledging your feelings (rather than reacting) can help let these small things pass. It also allows you to be aware of the situation or spiral you are in and to acknowledge where you are in the present moment.
Anonymous
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Apr 11, 2017
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Often, there might be an underlying issue that sends you into a downfall, but you see it as a small thing that sent you over the edge. If, for example, you are feeling irritable because you feel your husband doesn't do any housework and then you see a sink full of dishes, you might just break and get very angry. It's not the dishes that made you angry, it was the issue behind it. Other times, it could be just one thing leading to thinking of the other, ending up with you being depressed over many problems you're dealing with. For example; if a friend forgot to text you, it might lead to "She hasn't been talking to me for a while", to "I'm pretty lonely lately" to "no one likes me" to "I hate myself." Notice the patterns of what sent you into the downward spiral when you're feeling depressed, and maybe you'll find what the underlying issue is.
Anonymous
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Dec 15, 2015
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Every negative emotion is heightened all you see are the grim things you see the flaws the mistakes and if anything bad happens no matter how small all this emotion adds on to it and you combust in a way
