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Profile: SweetPorcelain
SweetPorcelain on May 8, 2015
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Profile: donotlosewhoyouare
donotlosewhoyouare on Jun 29, 2015
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Well, sometimes I got bullied at school, sometimes I did not even want to go to school, but one day, i got brave, i told them what i was going through and that i was really sick of them, it's not as easy as it sounds, it took a very long time, but it wasn't anyone's fault, if you show security and respect with other you'll get that back. And if that doesn't work, talk to a mayor, it really helps, but remember. DON'T LET ANY BASTARD BRING YOU DOWN! YOU'RE WORTH!
Profile: heavenlySun21
heavenlySun21 on May 2, 2015
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This, in my experience is a sad question. Ive realized that friends should not bully friends...if it doesn't stop after communication..the friendship should be ended.
Profile: Apanda
Apanda on Dec 7, 2015
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Two things can really help. Confidence and communication. Even if you don't feel very confident, pretending you are around others lets them know you're going to be harder to bully. Also, let your friends know that you don't like how they're treating you. Sometimes people can hurt those close to them without meaning to because they thing something is funny. And then if they don't listen, it might be good to meet some new people. Friends are supposed to support you, not tear you down.
Profile: RalphBG
RalphBG on Jan 8, 2015
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That's a tough one. Try talking to them, telling them to stop etc. If they do not stop, then unfortunately they aren't your real friends. I know this may seem harsh, but you should not let them be apart of your life, as real and true friends wouldn't do that. Try and find someone who treats you well, and befriend them. Good luck :)
Profile: Dom15Lo15
Dom15Lo15 on Apr 10, 2015
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If they are truly friends, they woudn't bully you. I've been bullied before, and from personal experience, finding people who support you and don't ever bring you down are people who are true friends!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 6, 2015
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Distance yourself from these "friends". Try interacting with new people. Those "friends" will soon get bored of trying to irritate you and be rude when they realise you don't care.
Profile: Ryeuhsoreus
Ryeuhsoreus on Jan 6, 2015
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The best thing to get your friends to stop bullying you would be to confront the situation. Use I statements and tell them how you feel. Such as, "I feel angry when you make fun of me."
Profile: Funfloor
Funfloor on Apr 25, 2015
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Stand up for yourself. And you know the best for yourself. Hopes that help. Try it if you want to . Ty
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 13, 2015
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If they are truly your friends, an honest and direct talk with them, together or separately, should suffice to make them stop. If they cannot be considerate enough to stop, when they know it hurts you, perhaps you need to evaluate if they are truly your friends or not.
Profile: Dreamz
Dreamz on Jun 22, 2015
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Well. Friends and Bullying, in my opinion, should never be used in the same sentence. If my "friends" bullied me, I'd try to find some new ones. Friends are supposed to lift you up when you're down. Not step on you or even be the reason you are down.
Profile: Waterbear
Waterbear on Aug 4, 2015
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If they're bullying you, they are not your friends. Tell them their behavior is not cool, and if they make fun of you or continue, stop hanging out with them.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 5, 2016
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Awe thats a tough spot to be in, Ive been there before. What worked for me was to tell them when I feel like they are bullying me. I would say "Thats not really nice to say/do, I dont treat you like that please stop" and if they wouldnt stop then I would choose not to have them in my life anymore.
Profile: alfonsojon1997
alfonsojon1997 on Jun 22, 2015
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Talk to them. Sometimes, friends can be harsh and not even realize it, but if they don't stop after talking to them, I personally wouldn't call them friends. If they're making you feel bad, the best thing to do is talk about it. If they are truly friends, they'll see the error and will stop. If they aren't, then it's best to not hang around them anymore.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 29, 2015
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If they bully you, they are not your friends. They are just your pretend friend, real friends don't bully each other, they help each from not being bullied. Try to make new, and better friends!
Profile: TheColumn
TheColumn on Feb 7, 2017
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If they are your friends, they wouldn't bully you. Change "friends" for friends. It is better to have one true friend, or even none than "friends" that bully you.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 26, 2017
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I am sorry you are being bullied. Nobody deserves that. If you are feeling bullied, the people who are treating you that way are not your friends. Friends sometimes playfully tease each other, but what you are describing doesn't sound like that. Tell them that their behavior is hurting you and to please stop. If they don't listen and continue bullying you, it might be time to reconsider them as friends.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 28, 2015
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Just be strong and show them that what they are doing just won't work but if that continues then you should complain to your parents or consuelor
Profile: KendallNichole
KendallNichole on Jan 6, 2015
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You're always allowed to stand up for yourself and let them know what they're doing is wrong and hurts. Also, telling someone else (parent, adult, someone you trust, teacher, etc.) that this bullying is happening so they can help you out, whether it be for emotional support or standing up to them
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 10, 2016
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There really is no way to get people to stop bullying. But talking to an adult helps. And if they are bullying you, they ARE NOT friends. No friend should bully their friends.
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