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Because nobody is perfect. A relationship takes two people to compromise and to commit to each other.
Anonymous
August 18th, 2015 2:06am
It takes two to be in a relationship. You both weren't perfect for each other and that's okay. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Relationships don't always work for a variety of reasons including issues with respect and life changes.
Nobody is perfect. Everyone wants to be perfect for the ones they love, but if he truly loved you, he would accept your flaws and insecurities and be there for you always. So don't worry about being perfect for him, just worry about making him smile.
You shouldn't feel like you need to be perfect for someone, to maybe change to BE perfect. You already ARE perfect. If your significant other doesn't make you feel like you are perfect, then maybe you haven't quite found what you're looking for yet. You shouldn't feel as though you're not enough, not good enough for someone: you are. You're perfect and beautiful and amazing. Just because you're you.
Anonymous
October 20th, 2015 2:46am
Sweetheart, the real question is why can't he be perfect for you? If it's not going to happen, don't make it happen.
It depends on multiple things. First of all, one of the basic reasons for people to feel attraction is the way someone else looks. Believe it or not, people do have a standard for what kind of look they want their partner to have. Second, there's the personality factor, which can be infinitely more important than looks, but that depends on who you want to be perfect for. Overall, guys want what they cannot have. If you want to be perfect for a guy, you have to take care of your looks, be genuinely kind and sweet and funny, but you have to refrain from being desperate or needy. If you do all of this correctly, you can be absolutely perfect in the eyes of a guy, and he will always keep chasing after you. In the end if you want to be perfect for a guy or a person in general, it all really depends on your own willpower and inner way of thinking. (source: personal experience with relationships and boys)
Anonymous
January 12th, 2016 6:15pm
there is no person on this world that is perfect ,you should remember that and you life will be way less stressful :)
Being perfect for another person seems to be a downfall a lot of people have to over come. Instead of think of what is perfect for him, think about what is perfect to you for you strive for that, keeping in mind perfection includes excepting unchangeable flaws. Then, his opinion wont matter so much
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