Should I go back to him/her?

Relationships and love are always messy and have no set rules. Nobody but you can tell how you’re feeling. The only thing people can do is give advice but at the end of the day it’s your heart and feelings so follow them. For starters it’s important to remember why the relationship ended in the first place. Don’t lose sight of what was wrong but also keep in mind the good times. Also make sure you’ve expressed this desire to get back together with your ex. Taking into account their feelings is very important, but so are yours. If you choose to go back make sure you don’t settle for anything but the world you deserve. If you expect less you’ll get it; so do not settle. Furthermore make sure you are open and are willing to change for the better as well. But at the end of the day if you love them and they love you, go for it. Because they make you happy and that’s all that matters.

Returning to an ex is a difficult decision that varies case by case. Look to why you two broke up in the first place - was communication a major issue, or was loyalty in question? What ultimately was your downfall? These factors might indicate repeat behavior that you want to avoid. It is true that people can change, but giving your ex a chance to prove that before you get back together may be best. If you're still not sure, talk to friends or trusted loved ones and ask for a second opinion. Sometimes they will see the characteristics and tendencies that you miss. In short, it's up to you, but be wary!

Follow the path that you believe makes you the happiest. At the end of the day we gotta do everything we can for that pursuit because you are what matters. If you have second thoughts about them or the relationship than it’s worth taking your time to think through what it is you’re looking for. As intense as love feels, especially in the moment - you’ll always have more than enough time to change your mind about path choices, and whether or not you even need to be with someone to be happy. Life is worth waiting for, and good things do come to those who wait.

I believe that people have the potential to change and I even met such people in life. But based on experience, most of us don't change. The older we get, the more fixed we get in our thought process, way of living etc. So to answer the question, my answer is NO. Until and unless the only reason for the separation was due to an unavoidable circumstance, I doubt there is any benefit in investing back in a relationship that didn't work. I also believe that we should never live life with regrets. Personally, I try to give my best to all emotional relationships. So turning back is never an option, no matter how nostalgic I might feel at times. And as someone once said, "this too shall pass".

really depends what you are going back too? is it a bad relationship, abusive or just happy. make a list of all what went wrong the first time and talk to the other person. see if can be worked out and if its worth it . the most imporatnat thing is to be happy in life. weather it be with this person or not. if its something small that can be fixed then maybe try again. but remember it has to make you happy . life is about living to the fullest and happiness.

Whether or not you should go back to someone depends on the situation. Anybody that puts you in the danger of your life that is considered to me self harmful situation talks acceleration and you always deserve better alone. However some people can get stressed out and need a separate and then Yorkville when they get the chance to have some time apart and then there's this people that can never get along and separate for good. make sure that you go back to somebody who is not a toxic person and they also pros and cons of what made The Break-Up happen is always good to write down and then see which way that this would go if you went back as happiness is not easy and you deserve the best. As you only get to live once and you should a name for a positive happy life as it were the way worth it and you deserve it as well as the other person.

When you ask this question, think back to your relationship with him/her. When you were together, did you feel happy or did you feel unhappy? That is a key factor. If you were happy, think about after you guys weren't together, did you feel like you were happier when you were together or did you feel happier when you weren't? Sometimes it may feel like you really want to go back with them but if you think deeply about it, you will know your answer. If that doesn't help, think about it for a longer period of time, then come back to the same questions and think about it again.

If something didn't work out, there's a reason. You will hurt yourself more if you force someone to love you. Instead of going backward move forward. Focus on what makes you as a person happy and what you can do to better yourself. Learn how to love yourself unconditionally. One day someone will enter your life and give you everything you ever wanted and you'll never have to wonder if they truly love you. It is not worth settling, and even if you believe that he/she was the one what is meant to be will be. You will find something that you'll never have to leave in the first place.

I have come to learn that there's a reason it didn't work out. Even if they say they'll treat you better, they should have done that before you left. Take this time to grow yourself and take the time to truly learn who you are as a person. Buy a new book, start a new painting, buy a gym membership, go for a walk. Try new things to distract you from the hurt and slowly you'll realize that you don't need him/her to function and you can live a beautiful life all on your own. Once you're able to do that, the right person will walk into your life and make it extraordinary.

You ended things with him/her for a reason. You need to ask yourself if you're ready to go through that again or even if you want to go through all that again and if that will be fair to you and them both, and if you can let go of what happened and just be in the present, and not bring up what happened in the past. You need to decide how much you invest into that relationship emotionally, as it will be affecting you and your partner both and you need to be thinking about what will be good for both of you /,before deciding to go back to them.

Frankly, it depends on who they are. If they were a good friend and/or significant other, and you miss them, it might not hurt to check it out and try having a relationship again. If they were hurtful or abusive, or they did something to you, you might want to put a little bit more thought into how you are doing things. When it comes down to it, you usually can trust your instinct (or your gut). If you're unsure, it's always a good option to talk to someone you trust like a friend or family member. It all depends on the situation and who they are.

it depends. do you want to go back to him or her? do you think it is going to help you? do you believe that you going back to him or her would be healthy for one or both of you? if you want to and think that it is not going to harm you emotionally, physically or in any other way, then maybe you should. it's completely your choice and nobody but you can decide it for you. if he or she would add to your happiness, if they're someone you enjoy being around, then sure, go back to them. but, if they're toxic for you or don't treat you right, then do yourself a favor, and PLEASE stay away from them.

It depends on the situation. Without being fully aware of the context and situation, one cannot advise if one should go back to him/her. Also, people should exercise caution while taking advise. Often, you, yourself, and the other person to whom you want to go back are best to answer this. Ask your heart. Do your heart really want to go back to him/her? You should at least be sure about your safety both physical and psychological in her/his presence and the other person too should feel safe. You should also consider if the other person really wants you to come back to her/him. Neither the other person should feel harrassed with your presence nor you should in their presence. It works both ways.

I know that this is a really hard question to answer and only you know the answer to this because each situation is different. Take into account your safety, wellbeing and personal life. If you feel unsafe, talk to someone and let them know what is going on. Don't feel pressured to go to back to someone if you know that you need space and time. Set up boundaries and try to have open communication if you do want to go back. In the end nobody can tell you what you should do but you can always talk to someone.

Value yourself first and recognize your self worth. Consider the pros and cons of going back. What would you say to a friend in your situation? Think back to all the time spent with this person, don't only remember the good times. If you do not feel like your absolute best self with this person then it is time to let them go. You should never feel like you have to chase someone and if they are not putting as much effort into you as you are to them then you should consider if going back is really the best option. Do what is best for you and your well being.

Going back to a past partner can be a struggle. It’s hard to let go when you have strong feelings towards them. Unfortunately some partners are disloyal. Personally I wouldn’t go back if my partner cheated because I would feel unimportant to them and would not want them to think it’s okay or give them the opportunity to repeat it. If 2 people are break up for personal reasons and want to get back together then it’s up to them to decide if it is best for them. Relationships are challenging and they won’t work without honesty, communication, and teamwork. Without those 3 things it is not worth it.

Let's be honest, going back to someone is a difficult decision to make when you're emotionally attached. Talk to someone before making a decision so that you can see the situation from another point of view. Getting back together with someone is a big decision on your part. And will make a change in your life. Are they disrespecting you and your life choices? Do they not show any appreciation? Perhaps even listen to you? If your answers are all no's, then those are a few examples of a toxic relationship. You deserve something better. Find someone with respect, compassion, empathy, honesty, and many other positive traits. No one is perfect, but they could be for you.

If they hurt you, made you feel worthless, cheated on you or anything else similar to that, no it would not be advisable to do so. If you were happy and they treated you well and you truly think going back to them is a good idea, consider why you broke up before making any form of decisions and ultimately, do what will be best for you in the long run. Make sure to look after your own mental and physical health before jumping back into a relationship, especially with an ex. consider all aspects of the relationship and how you and they fit together.

Depends on how things ended. Before you even go back to him or her you need to ask yourself what went wrong in the first place. If both of you can be able to find what made both of you break and how it can be fixed then you can give it a shot. Some do work and some don't work after the reunion. All relationships are hard work no one is perfect. People make mistakes but if they can recognize where they went wrong and want to fix it it's better than one who only wants to come back because they can't find a replacement.

You never go anywhere. You end up trapped in this twisted black hole that neither of you can get out of, a black hole that neither of you wanted to be in in the first place. You’re not going back because you love him. You’re going back because you’re bored. Or lonely. Or because you can’t stand the thought of spending another night laying in your bed, knowing that no one is thinking about you. You want to feel loved. And cared for. You want there to be someone out there who misses you. But you’re looking for validation in the wrong places. You’re not going to feel more alive and less invisible just because someone kisses you a few times and tells you they missed you. Going back to him means you’ll feel a small thrill at first. The thrill of not being alone for a while. The thrill of knowing that there’s someone you can text if you’re at the bar and you’re bored out of your mind. You have someone to tell things to. You feel a small comfort in the possibility that the fulfillment you’re looking for might come from him. Ask yourself a few questions. Why did he become your ex in the first place? Is that reason is still valid? If yes, why are you even thinking about going back to him, and give him another chance? If no, is it really a no? What generally happens is with time our memories fade as the wounds do, and those memories do start seeming better than they actually were. So we tend to give people another chance even if they don’t deserve it in the first place, only to understand later that the things haven’t really changed much. Now keeping the above perspective in your mind, think again. If the answer is still No. Ask yourself another question, are you happy in your present relationship. Is your present boyfriend is looking after you well? If yes, then what is the need for quitting on him, for your ex? If No, still give a thought about the whole thing in the perspective that I have mentioned above. I want to tell you something. People tend to throw away what is in their hands, only to regret it later. When taking such decisions in life, take time. Ask yourself as many questions as possible. Hope you arrive at a decision that proves to be best for your future

You should never get back with him/her unless you know for a fact that they have changed. If they have changed then it could be good to get back together. It could be that that person changes because of their mistakes with you and realizes that they need to be a better person, and change. But then, not everyone changes or truly changes. I would say that if you have broken up with said person twice at least, then you probably shouldn't be getting back together with them. If they don't change after the first time of breaking up, then there really isn't a chance that they will change after the second or the third.

It depends on what the person done. If you feel like they have changed the way they was then I would take the chance. How do you feel about the situation. If you do not feel comfortable with them anymore or you feel like you won't get anywhere then do not pressure yourself into the relationship as you don't want to feel yourself neglecting your partner. You need to make sure you feel happy and want to be with the person. Follow your heart and you will feel like your on the right path. Talk to them about how your feeling.

What made you two split up in the first place? It's a great thing to give second chances to both you and him/her, as long as you feel safe, happy, and you feel like there is a potential to learn from your old experiences with that person. Sometimes it's good to discuss things through with them, whereas at other times it's best to let go. If you do feel like a misunderstanding is cleared, and it feels right to go back, then go ahead! If this keeps repeating, then you can always go on and find new people you might find settling and right for you :)

If they effort to get back together with me then I will give it a chance. Relationship is a teamwork between a couple. If your partner is abusive it is best to just let it go and move on. You have to think about yourself first before considering him/her. If the relationship is still worth fighting for the go right ahead but if you think you’re better off without him or her then move on. Easy to say than done but taking things slowly and making sure is the best thing to do. Always use your mind first then your emotions after.

Depends on what him/her mean in your life and what the pros and cons are to reattaching yourself to this person. Was this relationship healthy? Did it bring value into your life? Or honestly was it toxic, draining? You always want to be honest with yourself with the reasons of having people around you, are they for my own personal means or are they actually meaningful. You matter, always remember that, your health matter, physically and mentally and if you are not careful people come in and either build these parts of you up, or tear you down. Be cautious and vigilant always with your heart.

Before you ask the question, what is it that you want out of the relationship? And if it is worth going through it with this person. If you decide to go back to him/her make sure both of you establish some clear boundaries. In other words, what starts with you and what ends with you individually. Having boundaries and clear communication is so important when it comes to rekindling a relationship. Also, it is important for you to understand your worth as an individual. Knowing who you are as a person and what type of person deserves your time and energy. A toxic person does not deserve your time and energy.

Contemplating returning to a old relationship is a common thought you can have; it is okay for this to cross your mind. However, it isn't up to anybody else to tell you what you should/should not do. It's important to clarify in your mind that YOU are the only expert of your experience, with emotions and thinking which nobody can take away from you. You can try to reflect on your past love, how it began, why it ended, and—from this thorough thought process—decide if it's worth the time, effort, and commitment to relight the fire with your former partner. Do what you have to do... for you. :)

It's from analysis that you will look at your life and make a personal decision where you're responsible of the choice that you make. This is in order no to blame any person for you're the one to live the life. Look at the pros and cross of the choice and make sure you look at the motives why you're opting for that choice. Ask yourself is it selfish motives or for the common good. Am I ready to embrace and face the consequences of my choice with no blame? Owning our choices is very important as when challenges comes I will face them with courage. This is why the choice depends on individual responsibility.

You may go back only if you think it's worth it, if you think it will be good for your future, matches with what you want to pursue and other different reasons like if the person isn't toxic and is welcoming and understanding etc. Being decisive is sometimes important. If you think there's no point in going back and that everything will be back to normal then there's actually no point. Rest you know yourself better than anyone else. Hence, decide for yourself wisely. Just remember, there's no right or wrong thing to do. We learn either ways :)

Can I ask for more information about this topic? Try thinking about why you are no longer together both positively and the less positive things. Maybe write down them and see in visual more than thinking. This could be a huge help to get more understanding of the situation. Also think about why you are feeling this way in both again positive and less positive reasons. Also have you tried speaking to a friend or relatives about how you are feeling? Having a option from a person who is not feeling this way, may help you a lot. I’m sorry upi feel like this but this feeling is expected and felt in everyone at some point in life, also it’s a hard situation to think straight and understanding what you want, but you will make the right decision for you. You clearly care about them and shows, so try understand it may take time but you will do what’s best for you