When We Feel Disappointed By A Bad Experience On 7cups

Sometimes some members could be using the site for wrong reasons, or a leader could feel unfair to you, or some rules might not make sense to you. All this could leave us feeling very bitter towards 7cups in general.

And I completely understand this frustration, I have at times felt deeply disappointed at some of the things sometimes. But once I started to notice the good, more and more good was revealed to me, and more I could believe in 7cups as a genuinely humane and compassionate place, with a pure motive of humanity in its underlying spirit. We could be imperfect, but our cause is perfect and pure, guiding us each time we lose our way.

About the Bad

I'd say good and bad both exist in the world. It could be like 70% bad and 30% good (much thankfully the good exists, making the earth sustain).

But I am really proud when saying this, that on 7cups, in my experience the numbers have been opposite. I have discovered 70% good and 30% bad, and that is just so amazing.

It means the place 7cups must be inherently so good that it attracts mostly the good folks here, or goodness in people comes out when they stay here with us.

Striving For Perfection

We are still trying hard I believe, to increase that 70% to 80%, and to 90, closer and closer to 100. But we'd need your forgiving big heart when you come across bad experiences. We can work together to make 7cups feel safer for all.

Don't leave us based on a bad experience, take self-care breaks, or vent to a peer-supporter/ to a listener sharing circle, in helping yourself feel better. But stay with us and help us get better❤️