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Self-Reflections

Self-Reflection ❍ The Person I Wish to be Remembered  

Question yourself with below questions as a self-reflections and self-guidance:

  • What kind of person do I wish to be remembered by people who get a chance to know me on a personal level? 
  • What kind of person do I wish to be remembered by people who get a chance to know me on a professional level?

Have my actions and words reflecting the person I wish to be remembered?

What can I do tomorrow to be closer to the kind of person I wish to be?

 

Self-Reflection ❍ People Who Matter The Most 

Below are questions for a daily self-reflection as a reminder especially If you have a busy day in and out with school or career (recommended to use before ending the day):

  1. Who are 1 to 5 people who mean the most to me? What made them special to me?
  2. Who are 1 to 5 people whose happiness matters to mine? What made it so?

❍ What have I done or said today to them that reflected how much they mean to me? 

❍ What can I do or say tomorrow to them that reflects how much they mean to me?

 

Self-Reflection ❍ Have I Been Fair with Myself?  

Below are questions for self-reflection for a daily reminder if you have tendency of doing negative self-talk or self-loathing (recommended to use before ending the day):

Who is the person I have treated or spoken to, with the kindest act/words? What made me do so?

  • Have I treated myself with the same kindness I gave them?
  • What can I do to treat and speak to myself with utmost kindness and compassion?

What kind and compassionate words have I said to people when they were facing hardships? When they told me about their regret or failure?

  • Have I said the same kind and compassionate words to myself when I'm facing challenges? When I fail or make mistake?

 

Self-Reflection ❍ Have I Been Unfair to Others? 

Questions for self-reflection as a daily reminder (recommended to use before ending the day):

Who are people I have judged negatively, either with words or thoughts, based on what I perceived of their behaviour or words or words of others? Is it my own assumption only? Have I known for a fact their reasonings or side of the story?

How would I feel if someone assumes the worst of me based on what I do or say without understanding what my reasons are or where that behaviour or words come from?

What can I do to eliminate biased judgement on others that is based on my assumptions? That is based on the words of others?

 

Self-Reflection ❍ Extrovert, Introvert or Ambivert?

 

 

Which spectrum are you leaning more into? Which one do you feel would be easier and would make you happier:

❍ Learn to be someone else with personality of your choice or ❍ learn to understand and embrace who you already are.

 

Self-Reflection ❍ How Far Have You Gone? 

Every step of every day, we continue growing.

Think of 5 (five) years ago. How old were you? Where were you? What was your dream?

How far have you gone? How much have you grown?
 

 

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