Self-Esteem Chats
-The biggest communication problem is ''We don't listen to understand, we listen to reply". Therefore, listen more.
Useful Questions
-What makes you feel/think____ (You are ugly/stupid/etc)?
-What would you say to someone that thinks they're ____?
-What are some things you like about yourself? (Tread lightly here, often the answer can be 'nothing')
-What is something nice someone else has said about you?
-What are some qualities you wish you had?
-What can help you achieve those qualities?
Useful Phrases
-We are much better collectors of our shortcomings than our strengths.
-We often magnify the negative statements which people say to us versus the positive statements or events which come our way.
-No one is perfect.
-We’re often meaner to ourselves than we are to anyone else.
Original post in this thread by @SamanthaH, send them a thanks!